Recently, a parent from North China Electric Power University posted on the Internet, complaining that the temperature in the school's dormitory was too low, only 17 degrees. Parents felt that the school's approach was excessive and questioned whether their efforts were in vain. However, the matter that attracted widespread attention was not supported, and the voices in the comment section were almost one-sided, believing that a dormitory temperature of 17 degrees was normal. This question has sparked people's thinking about excessive parental intervention, let's **.
North China Electric Power University is one of the 211 universities in China, which is a national key university directly under the Ministry of Education and jointly established by 12 large power groups and the Ministry of Education. The school has a great advantage in terms of employment, and many students have already been booked by power companies such as the State Grid before graduation. Therefore, the admission conditions of North China Electric Power University are very strict, and only students with top grades can be admitted. For the students and parents who enter this school, this is almost the fruit of years of hard work and a manifestation of struggle.
However, the parents found that the temperature in the dormitory where the child was living was only 17 degrees and there was no air conditioning. Parents complained that because their children have lived in the south since they were young, they have been using air conditioners indoors, so they cannot adapt to the low temperatures in the north. However, on the web, many people expressed a different point of view. They think that a dormitory temperature of 17 degrees is normal, and even lower in some places. Still others believe that college students may become too lazy if the dorm provides a comfortable temperature environment, which is not conducive to their growth.
Temperature has an important impact on human comfort and health. However, in college life, a moderate amount of maladjustment helps to develop their resilience and coping skills. If the school gives students too comfortable dormitory conditions, they may gradually lose their independence and adaptability to material life.
In addition, dormitory life for college students is also a process that allows them to learn to be independent and self-reliant. Excessive parental interference in a student's dormitory environment may cause children to lose confidence in independent living and make it difficult for them to adapt to society. Therefore, if you want your children to have a better growth, parents should let go moderately during college and give them the opportunity to adapt to the environment.
In response to parents' complaints, is the school obliged to provide a comfortable dormitory environment?In fact, schools take into account a number of factors in the allocation of dormitories, including resource constraints, energy consumption, and the overall needs of the student population. Therefore, the temperature of the dormitory provided by the school is not set arbitrarily, but is chosen within a certain reasonable range.
In addition, the dormitory conditions are adjusted according to the season. If students have an opinion about the temperature in the dormitory, they can make suggestions to the school, but excessive parental intervention is not a good way to solve the problem. Students should be encouraged to take the initiative to solve problems, adapt to the environment, and develop their ability to deal with difficulties and challenges.
It is understood that the parent finally said that he had complained to the school, and the dormitory problem had been resolved, and the temperature of the dormitory had increased. However, the core of the issue has gone beyond the dormitory temperature itself, to about the relationship between parents and the school and whether parents should interfere too much in the lives of their students.
It can be seen from this incident that the caring heart of parents is understandable, but in the process of students' growth, moderate discomfort and difficulties are conducive to their development. College students need to learn not only professional knowledge, but also the ability to live independently and solve problems. Parents should give them the opportunity to make their own choices so that they can grow and progress in the process of adapting to the environment.
In addition, the school should also take into account various factors in the management of dormitories to provide students with a relatively comfortable learning and living environment. But students should also understand that dormitory conditions are not the only factor that affects their growth, but their own efforts and motivation are the most important.
Finally, whether at school or at home, we should pay attention to the independent development and cultivation of students, and not interfere too much in their lives. Only by giving them a relaxed space for growth can we truly help them become excellent talents.