Recently, in a divorce dispute case in Dexing, Jiangxi, the plaintiff Chen Zhixian said:Anyone who has a child is his will choose to be silent. It turned out that his wife Yu and the third party did not appear in court, and the case will be announced at a later date.
According to Chen Zhixian, he and his wife Yu have been married for many years and have always had a good relationship, but since Yu met a third party in marriage, there have been serious problems in the relationship between husband and wife. In order to protect his rights and interests, Chen Zhixian had to choose to solve the problem through legal means. This divorce dispute case has also attracted the attention and discussion of many netizens.
Some people believe that Chen Zhixian should choose to be silent, after all, this is not a glorious thing. However, some people believe that Chen Zhixian chose to talk publicly about his divorce dispute in order to remind more people to pay attention to the risks and problems in marriage. In a marriage relationship, it is not necessarily that the man is strong and the woman is weak. Generally speaking, a third-party crisis in a marriage is the result of three factors.
There will always be challenges and choices in life, and there will be times when we are left at a crossroads and overwhelmed. In the face of these moments, some people will choose to be brave enough to express their opinions, while others will choose to remain silent. And "if anyone is mine, I will choose to be silent", is a more thoughtful attitude.
Choosing to be silent is not because of fear or avoidance, but because you know that if you say more, you will lose, and it is better to say less. When faced with choices, some people will make wrong decisions because they are too impatient or impulsive, and choosing silence can give them more time to think and weigh the pros and cons. This attitude can avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles and consequences, and allow you to face life's challenges more calmly.
Silence is also a way of self-preservation. In complex interpersonal relationships, sometimes too much expression can expose one's weaknesses and shortcomings, and choosing silence can keep oneself mysterious and not easy to be seen through. At the same time, silence is also a means of avoiding contradictions and conflicts, allowing you to stay calm and not easily fall into an emotional state.
Of course, silence is not everything. Sometimes we need to be brave enough to express our opinions and ideas, especially when it comes to our own rights and interests. Silence allows us to face various challenges and choices in life more calmly and calmly, avoiding a lot of unnecessary troubles and consequences.