Drink two glasses of wine at noon and go to the river to take pictures. The eyes are always blurry, and everything is a flower, and it is useless to rub the eyes with your hands or wipe the corners of your eyes with wet tissues.
I've long heard that drinking alcohol can harm your eyesight, and it seems that this is true.
No, go back and eat more carotene.
After two hours of shooting, it turned out that it was my glasses that were dirty - there were several large, greasy handprints on them. Wipe it with a tissue, your eyes will stop spent, and the world will become clear again!
Many times, when you feel that the world is dirty, in fact, it is your glasses that should be wiped off.
If you follow this logic, can you deduce the conclusion that when you think others are annoying, it is your own eyes that are annoying?
If that's the case, wouldn't you doubt life?
There was a young man who thought that everyone in the world was very generous, and every time everyone had bread to eat, they had to give him half of it, so every time he had bread, he had to give half of it to others.
Another young man complains every day that there is no good person in the world, that everyone is cold and selfish, that everyone eats the bread of his own and never shares it with him, so that once he has the bread of his own, he will never share it with others.
In fact, the world is a wall of echoes, and if you shout "I love you" at it, it will also shout "I love you";If you yell "I hate you" at it, it will also shout "I hate you".
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
If you want others to be good to you, you have to be good to others first;The best way to ask someone to invite you to dinner is if you invite someone to eat first.
If you want to get what you want from someone else, you have to let someone get what he wants from you first!
There is an entrepreneur who introduced his successful experience that when you share the cake with others, give the big half to others and keep the small half for yourself, as long as you do this, whoever has the cake will share it with you, and you will have endless bread in your life!
There is a large family that married a daughter-in-law from a poor background, and the daughter-in-law has lived a life of food and clothing since then, wholeheartedly supporting her husband in his career, and her husband is also extremely concerned and loving to her.
Later, the daughter-in-law's mother said to her: Daughter, you have to keep a mind, what if your husband likes other women and doesn't like you one day, you have to leave a way back for yourself and save more private money.
The daughter-in-law felt that her mother was reasonable, and began to save money for her private house. Later, her husband found out and felt that she was not sincere enough to grow old with her, so she divorced her daughter-in-law.
Mom said, "Look, Mom is right, right?"Fortunately, you saved up your private money, otherwise you would be miserable today!
In fact, the mother did not live to understand that saving private money was the reason why her daughter was divorced, and she reversed cause and effect.
Many times, it's not that others don't want to share the bread with you, it's that you don't want to share the bread with others.
We invert cause and effect, and then blame the world for it, and we don't see the crux of the problem at all.
In fact, whether a person is cute or not depends on how you look at him!
You look at the world with an appreciative eye, and everyone is so lovely;You look at the world with disgust, and everyone looks abominable!
Stephen Covey, author of The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, asked a question from an audience member after a talk: "My wife and I have lost our old feelings, and I guess we both don't love each other anymore, what should we do?"”
Stephen Covey said, "Then go and love her!".”
The listener said, "You didn't understand my question, I mean I don't love her anymore." ”
Stephen Covey said, "Sir, if you don't understand my answer, then you should love her!."”
But without love, how can you make me love her?”
Stephen Covey said, "Mind you, love is a verb!So please love her, serve her, sacrifice for her, think of her, appreciate her, and affirm her ......”
When you love someone, that person is lovely;
This world will be beautiful when you love this world!
So, when you feel that the world is no longer cute, it is not that the world has lost its loveliness, but that you have lost the ability to love!
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