Once upon a time there was a girl in my class, and she was unusually good-looking. Whether walking on campus or in a crowd, it's hard for her not to be conspicuous. It can be said that her appearance is the type that is beautiful without makeup. In addition to her beautiful face, she is also tall and thin, nearly one meter seven, slender and slender. Every time she posts ** in the circle of friends, she can attract a large group of enthusiastic comments from girls and shouts from his wife.
Once, when she and I were walking on the playground, we both praised her for her beauty and how good she looked. However, instead of being as happy as we imagined, she told us in frustration that she often heard people scold her.
Why?"I asked curiously.
She said with a wry smile"The reason turned out to be because I was so beautiful. "
She told us that she had heard all sorts of ugly words, such as green tea
Third Parties, etc. Every time she walks in front, the people behind will follow and scold, and even some girls will sneer at her.
I've always felt that beauty brings joy and praise to people, but after hearing about her experience, I was deeply shocked and heartbroken. This girl has a very gentle personality, not pretentious at all, and even a little introverted and shy, which has nothing to do with the words those people use to describe her.
She is the type of person who will always sit silently in the far corner of the classroom in the morning, listen to the teacher's lecture, and then carefully take notes. She never flaunts her beauty, nor does she deliberately attract the attention of others. She often chooses to remain silent and does not respond to these groundless accusations and injustices.
Gradually, I began to look into the reasons behind this. Why are beautiful people discriminated against?I did some research online. Finally, I found the answer.
In the past, beautiful women were often considered superficial, narcissistic, and untrustworthy. This perception is deeply ingrained and has been implanted in people's minds. And those who criticize her are often people who are not as good as her, and reduce their own anxiety by denigrating her. Sometimes even jealousy.
It hurts me to see her being pointed at at school. So, I decided to do something to help her regain the respect and happiness she deserved.
First of all, I attended a counseling course with her at school, hoping to deal with her beauty through professional guidance. In the process, she learned to better handle these caustic accusations and to be more confident in the face of external evaluation.
Secondly, I found some like-minded friends and organized a support group for beautiful women. In this group, we share each other's experiences, encourage and support each other. Gradually, she began to discover that there were many other people in the world who understood her feelings and cared about her heart, not just her appearance.
Most importantly, I discussed with her how to respond to these negative comments. We decided that instead of being angry or sad about these frivolous accusations, we wanted to be better versions of ourselves and prove it to them.
So, in class, she worked hard to improve her grades;On campus, she actively participates in various activities to showcase her talents and abilities. She hopes that through these efforts, people who are prejudiced against her will understand that beauty does not mean superficiality and narcissism, and that everyone has their own unique light.
Gradually, she became stronger and more confident. Although there are still some jealous and malicious people around her, she has learned not to let these voices interfere with her heart and her pace of progress.
Eventually, she succeeded in changing people's stereotypes about her. Whether it is on the outside or on the inside, she has received more recognition and respect.
This is a story about discrimination against beautiful girls. By sticking to her heart and working hard to forge herself, she found her way and ultimately gained her own joy and respect. At the same time, the story is a reminder that beauty is diverse, and beautiful people also deserve to be respected and accepted.