Jin Sha is a female guest in "Love's Study Trip", her words and deeds are very gentle, she looks like a silly white sweet, 42-year-old She is still full of longing for love, so she and Sun Chengxiao, who is 19 years younger than her, came together, making many people worry that she will be deceived by young men. Some even suggested that she find a more reliable man, or one who wasn't in it for the money.
Jinsha herself realizes this, and she begins to wonder if she is a fox and not a white rabbit. And there is a comment that is very interesting, it says that real hunters often disguise themselves as prey, Jinsha looks like prey, but is actually a hunter, and is a hunter who is very good at protecting himself and saving money.
In the process of getting along with Jin Sha and Sun Chengxiao, it can be seen that they are both very scheming people, Jin Sha enjoys Sun Chengxiao's care and pursuit of her, all kinds of cooking, all kinds of coaxing her happy, but she didn't give him a lot of material rewards. Even on Sun Chengxiao's birthday, he asked Jin Sha for a gift, and Jin Sha's answer was that he wanted a song written by her. Let's analyze in detail the argument that Jinsha is a hunter and not a prey, maybe you will think that the reason why Jinsha is still single at the age of 42 may be because she is too picky.
First, Jin Sha will not give material things in the relationship between men and women, Sun Chengxiao wants gifts, she only gives songs.
At first, everyone may think that Jin Sha is the kind of woman who is very generous to her boyfriend, but when she gets along with Sun Chengxiao, she shows the other side, when the other party directly asks her for a birthday gift, she is like those old scumbags who refuse to spend money, pretending that she and the other party are very innocent.
Obviously, when Sun Chengxiao is 23 years old, she will not want any worthless gifts. But when Jin Sha answered the gift he wanted the most, what he said was, you envy me for being famous early, and you also envy my ability as a **person, so you want me to write you a song. Sun Chengxiao had to reluctantly agree.
In this process, Jin Sha's attitude towards men asking for gifts is that he refuses to pay money easily and does not let the other party get material benefits from himself. Therefore, in the relationship between men and women, Jinsha is definitely not a prey, but a shrewd hunter.
Second, Jinsha enjoys the emotional value provided by men, and without economic value, the relationship is difficult to maintain.
But on such an important day as Sun Chengxiao's birthday, Jin Sha gave him a so-called song written by Jin Sha that he couldn't like or use, which was actually perfunctory and would disappoint men. Because Sun Chengxiao obviously regards her love with Jinsha as a career. That's why he spent 53 days cooking for Jinsha.
You must know that if a man spends time pleasing women, giving women romance, care, and companionship, he must have no time to make money, and even if there is an opportunity to make money, he has no time to seize it, and he has no ability to execute it. So Sun Chengxiao worked so hard to give Jin Sha emotional value, but Jin Sha didn't compensate him financially, and their relationship was difficult to last.
This may also show that even if Jinsha has talked about sibling love many times, she is unwilling to pay financially, and the relationship cannot last.
Thirdly, it is difficult for Jinsha to find a suitable partner because it does not attract rich people.
Everyone may say that Jin Sha has his own money, so he can find a man who is right with him. But the men who are right with her, over 42 years old, are basically married, or divorced with children, Jinsha herself looks down on them at all, feeling that they are too realistic, there is no atmosphere of love, or no one is willing to spend time coaxing her.
Really rich 42-year-old men who are still single, they must be busy fighting for their careers. Men who fight for their careers need the time for women to accommodate them, not for them to accommodate women. To some extent, Jinsha will not be favored by rich men at all, she needs others to accommodate her too much.
To sum up, whether it is pretending to be innocent in the relationship with Sun Chengxiao, the other party does not mention the money, and he does not mention the money, or he picks the door for the man who gives emotional value, and cannot provide emotional value to the rich man, it may all show that Jinsha is likely to be lonely and old. So sometimes it's not necessarily a good thing for a woman to be too shrewd.