Dear you, I know that you are now in the abyss of affection, surrounded by pain, loss, confusion, and helplessness. You try to struggle, try to find a way out, but it seems that everything is in vain. Allow me, as a stranger, to give you some warm comfort and advice, hoping to help you get out of this painful time.
First, you need to accept the brutal truth: your relationship is broken and can no longer be restored. It's not your fault, and it's not your failure. Pain is part of the relationship and a must for growth. Try to accept this reality, and your heart will be stronger as a result.
Don't suffer this alone. Talk to a friend, family member or a professional counselor about how you're feeling. They can give you emotional support and help you find ways to cope with your pain. Remember, you're not fighting alone.
It is very important to take care of yourself in this process. Try something you enjoy, such as sports, reading, listening, drawing, etc., to make your life fun and colorful. It's also important to get enough sleep and eat a healthy diet.
Time will dilute the pain. While it will take time, believe in the power of time. Don't rush it, give yourself some patience, and the pain will gradually lessen over time.
This experience will allow you to grow. You can learn a lot Xi from this relationship, such as how to understand yourself better, how to deal with relationships, how to deal with setbacks, etc. These experiences will make you a more mature and strong person.
Even though you may feel hopeless right now, keep hope. Maybe at some point in the future, you will meet someone who is more suitable for you, or you will find a way to make yourself happy. Remember, life is always full of possibilities.
Loving yourself is the most important thing. When you learn to be kind to yourself, you will find that the people around you will love you more. Don't tie your self-worth and feelings closely, everyone has their own value and meaning.
As much as you may feel lost right now, stay positive. Try to find the little things in life and discover the good things that will help you rebuild your faith and hope.
It takes courage to face emotional pain. Sometimes, we try to escape reality, but doing so will only make us more miserable. Be brave enough to face reality, accept it, understand it, and then draw strength from it.
If you feel that the pain cannot be relieved on your own, it is wise to seek the help of a professional counsellor. They can provide professional advice and support to help you get out of your situation.
Believe that all this will pass, dear you. Pain is temporary, while the future is promising. When you feel helpless and lost, remember: you are not alone in the fight. I hope these suggestions can help you, and may you get out of the pain of this relationship as soon as possible and find your own happiness. Remember, you are not alone on the road, no matter when or where. We are all here to support you and encourage you. Come on!