In our lives, people often blame certain external factors, such as the color of wine. However, when we think about it, we should realize that the responsibility lies more with us. Taking modern children's addiction to games and TV as an example, on the surface, these entertainment methods seem to be the cause of children's inability to control themselves, but in fact, the deeper root is the lack of family education.
First, let's think about the question of "wine color". In ancient times, people often compared the color of wine to each other, believing that they were both factors that caused people to lose their self-control. However, in modern society, people's attitudes towards alcohol have changed a lot. When it comes to alcohol, there are already a lot of laws and regulations in modern society that regulate drinking behavior and ensure that people can maintain self-control when drinking. Also, when it comes to pornography, while it may cause some attraction to some people, not everyone is affected by it. Therefore, it is not appropriate to place all the blame on the color of the wine.
Next, let's look at the problem of modern kids being addicted to games and television. It's true that these forms of entertainment have a big impact on children's lives, but the root cause of a child's addiction isn't the games or the TV itself. Rather, it is because children lack enough love and support in the family, leading them to seek external stimuli to fill the emptiness inside. In this case, if parents are able to give their children more attention and love to help them build self-confidence and self-worth, then children will not easily indulge in these forms of entertainment.
Therefore, we can conclude that the responsibility is not all with the wine or the external environment, but more with ourselves. When we are faced with ** or challenges, we need to learn self-control and self-management. At the same time, we should also recognize the importance of family education. Parents should give their children enough love and support to help them develop the right values and self-awareness. Only in this way can we truly take responsibility for ourselves and live a healthy and happy life.