Do you feel stressed in your life?Do you want to make a quick buck?Are you bothered that you can't make money?Are you complaining about social injustice?Do you feel that no matter how hard you try, you can't make as much money as others?Do you choose to give up when you don't get a reward for doing something?Do you regret that you didn't stick to it?Are you making excuses for what you've done wrong?Have you thought about it a lot but never took the first step?Have you given up?Are you confused?Are you getting by and ?......?
If you have faced or are facing any of the above problems, then congratulations, you are facing a turning point in your life – human weakness (lack of patience). If you move over, you will succeed, and if you can't pass, you will tend to be ordinary.
Human nature determines the pyramid model.
According to statistics, in 2023, the country will be 7800 million people have negative deposits, 5300 million people have deposits of 0-100,000, and 100 million people have deposits of more than 100,000, of which 1.5 million people have deposits of more than 1 million. Of course, this is only a simple deposit, excluding personal fixed assets. Whether it is a deposit or a fixed asset, a pyramid model will always be formed. The rich will always occupy the minority, and the poor will always occupy the total. What causes this?Why was the pyramid model formed?
For example, everyone is familiar with the Glory of Kings, the rank division of the Glory of Kings: Stubborn Bronze, Order**, Glory**, Noble Platinum, Eternal Diamond, Supreme Star, The Strongest King, Peerless King, Glory King, Legendary King. 90% of the partners who play Glory of Kings are above the ** rank, except for those who abandon the game, which is relatively easy to achieve;The diamond rank needs to be familiar with the rules of the game, familiar with the operation, and a little skill to achieve it;The first thing that Xingyao ranks need is time, after all, it takes about 10-30 minutes for a game, so it is not very difficult to persist for a while, Xi practice some skills, and be familiar with the hero's outfit and inscription matching;The difficulty of the strongest king is up, but if you try to learn more Xi heroes you are familiar with, and grasp the skills and awareness, you still have a good chance to achieve it;The unequaled king needs strong operating skills and strong awareness;The glory of the king requires a certain amount of talent + skills, and even professional training;I won't say much about the legendary king.
According to statistics6400 million people are playing Glory of Kings, only 1,926 people have reached the legendary king, and more than 40 million people have reached the strongest king. What the legendary king needs is real talent, and ordinary people can't achieve it no matter how hard they work without talent. More than 40 million people have reached the strongest king, which shows a problem, as long as you work hard and learn more Xi, there is still a high chance of persistence, and it has nothing to do with talent. Why do you say that?Because more than 99% of people have similar IQs and talents, most of the more than 40 million people are ordinary people, so why can they reach the strongest king, and why can't about 600 million people?Analyze how the person who reaches the strongest king achieves, the most important point is perseverance, after all, a season is only about 3 months, insist on Xi learning the skills of the hero of the glory of the king, outfit, inscription, and constantly practice Xi, and one day it will be reached, of course, there are some people who rely on the strong to bring it. Without perseverance, no hard work, no learning Xi, you can only linger in diamonds and stars forever. Thus the pyramid of the glory of kings was formed.
This is human nature, any difficult and challenging thing will form a pyramid model, and only a few people can always stand at the top of the pyramid, and most people can only wander at the bottom of the pyramid and the intermediate. This is especially true for making money, if it is very simple and difficult before earning, and there is no need to pay, then who will go to work, who will serve others, and who will follow the instructions of others?If no one pays, our lives will become unregulated and do whatever we want, and society will become chaotic and unable to progress.
So what is the main constraint on the pyramid model in human nature?Personally, I think the most important reason is the lack of patience in human nature. I don't have patience, I don't want to give, I want to do everything overnight, and I will never do one thing. When you think back to your life and reminisce about your memories, you will find that this is really the case. For example, when you are studying, when you go to school, when others are working hard to listen to lectures and learn Xi, do you work harder than others, do you fish for three days and dry nets for two days? Watching others go to good universities, even Tsinghua University and Peking University, are you envious, are you complaining, are you regretting?
Are you still envious of others, are you still complaining, are you still regretting?Most people are like this, and most people are destined to exist only at the bottom of the pyramid;Someone held out for a while, and he walked one level to the pyramid;If someone continues to insist, he will continue to go up... For example, if you are a salesperson, you will envy the sales champion, envy others who have been climbing up, but you can only stare dryly, complain that others are relying on relationships, sycophants, etc., in fact, this is just an excuse to comfort yourself. Have you ever thought about the efforts and persistence of others behind this work, have you compared with him, what is the gap between yourself and him? If you lack eloquence, what you lack is communication skills, or product familiarity, etc. It's very simple, spend more time to learn Xi, insist on exercising your shortcomings, make up for it, not for a day, for a week;Not for a week, for a month;One day you will be the focus of attention.
Of course, don't do useless persistence, persistence requires skill and Xi. Knowing that there is no road ahead, and continuing to move forward, that is not persistence, that is stupidity. A big tree, cut its branches and leaves with a thousand axes, it is better to cut its foundation with an axe.
If you read this article carefully, I hope to recall whether I am really like this--- lack of patience. Set a goal for yourself, make a plan for yourself, be responsible for yourself, be responsible for your family, complain less, and learn more Xi. 21 days to develop a Xi, insist on doing things according to your plan every day, and after a while, you will thank yourself for your persistence. I would like to send you a word: strive to manage the present until the future is clear.