In modern society, there is an increasing number of middle-aged women interacting with men. Some women tell jokes when it comes to relationships, which may seem casual but have a deeper meaning.
The first "joke" was: "I'm old and ugly, why are you still with me?".The middle-aged woman is ostensibly laughing at herself, but in fact the message is that she lacks confidence in her charm and attractiveness, and needs the approval and affirmation of men to be able to date with confidence. If a man can soothe her heart with sincere words after hearing this sentence and show her his appreciation and respect for her, then a middle-aged woman will feel moved by a man.
The second "joke" is: "You're my puppy, I'm going to pamper you." This sentence seems to be a joke, but it actually contains the expectations and needs of middle-aged women for men. Middle-aged women want men to pay attention to her, pamper her, and be emotionally dependent on her. If the man can give her enough attention and concern while showing dependence and listening to her, then the middle-aged woman will feel provoked by the man.
The third "joke" is: "I can't be pretty, but you have to be handsome." When a middle-aged woman says this, she is actually implying that a man needs a handsome, attractive man to support her image. Middle-aged women tend to worry about their image and identity, so they want to be with a man who looks good and is full of energy. If men can show their charm and self-confidence, and also show deep appreciation and respect for middle-aged women, then middle-aged women will feel provoked by men.
The last "joke" was: "I'm a bad woman, do you want to stay with me?".This sentence may seem like a joke about herself, but in fact, the message is that a middle-aged woman wants a man to understand her, tolerate her, and think that her shortcomings are not important. If men can seriously face the negative emotions of a middle-aged woman, while showing support and understanding for her, then middle-aged women will feel provoked by men.
In modern society, many middle-aged women crave the affirmation and attention of men. If men are able to interact with middle-aged women through nuanced lyricism and light-hearted humor, and genuinely care about the inner world of middle-aged women, they will be able to build deep relationships and create a better life together.