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01 It's never life that gets better, it's yourself.
Become a reliable person: there is a scale for doing things, an attitude for dealing with the world, and a warm life.
Words must be done, deeds must be fruitful.
Everything in life is every brick you build the edifice of history. When a certain brick is used up, and you build it very high, the pressure is great, and that place can't stand scrutiny, and the building is destroyed. This is true in the workplace, and the same is true when we are looking for business partners, making friends, and looking for partners, and we are willing to find real reliable people to work with. Because reliable people can provide you with some certainty to rely on in an uncertain future.
Dare to take responsibility and be able to carry things.
A reliable person is responsible and does not evade, even if the situation is bad, he can give a shot in the arm and make the people around him feel safe. A truly reliable person will make his ability worthy of his commitment.
There are principles and bottom lines.
Reliability is not only a kind of ability, but also a kind of quality.
There are so many smart people, why can reliable people be more reassuring?Reliability is one and the same, externally, it is reliable to others, and internally, it is reliable to oneself, which is the same thing. In other words, a truly reliable person regards reliability as his own quality, his own requirements for himself, not the requirements of others for himself. Therefore, to see whether a person is reliable or not, it is more about a person's character and bottom line.
A truly smart person will never overdraw his credit, nor will he live up to the trust of others.
02 Stay close to the people who nourish you.
When I was young, I didn't understand, but I always felt that the more friends I had, the better. Slowly at a certain age, people learn to protect their own energy and understand what is the most comfortable way to live. Writer Su Qin said: "You don't have to invite everyone into your life. "There must be a lot of hard work, and one stone is better than ten thousand min.
When a person's heart is beautiful and powerful, his magnetic field will also drive everything to become beautiful. Those who are close to him will also become clear and bright.
The best relationship between people is to nourish each other and achieve each other. The best ending between people is to go both ways and meet at the top.
03 Let people who are not familiar with you help you get things done.
Livy's book "The Power of Weak Relations" mentions:
Many times what can help you succeed is often the "weak relationship" that you ignore. The famous sociologist Mark Granovetter once did a survey and found that:
Most of the relationships you really use are people you don't see often, or even people you don't know very well.
Making good use of unfamiliar relationships is not only a mode of communication, but also a new type of interpersonal thinking.
To turn things around, you just need to find the right person. "A lot of times, the more you don't care about a relationship, the more you can help.
If you want more people to help you solve your problems, you need to strengthen your social weak relationships. Only in this way can fresh information be obtained from different sources.
Strong relationships, often with the same views and like-minded interests.
Weak ties, on the other hand, will add different insights to your career and gain scarce information. Only by linking weak social networks can we get the freshest information and reach more abundant resources.
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Editor |Wang Shuang, produced by People's Forum.
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