In this era of knowledge, the level of education is not only a diploma, but also a person's way of thinking, cognitive ability and educational philosophy. Recently, a netizen's sharing has attracted widespread attention, and he used his own personal experience to tell us: Don't marry a woman with a low education, even if she is good-looking!
This netizen, let's call him Mr. Zhang for the time being, is a high-achieving student with a double bachelor's degree. He married a girl who was promoted to a junior college, and thought that love could surpass everything, but when it came to educating children, they fell into a deep dilemma.
Mr. Zhang found that when his wife was educating her children, she only focused on formal issues, such as whether the children were late or whether they had completed their homework. However, she is unable to understand and guide the children's learning methods, ways of thinking and other deep-seated issues. When Mr. Zhang tried to communicate with her, she always used the school rules to refute him, and even questioned him: "Listen to you, or listen to the teacher?!".”
This made Mr. Zhang feel very helpless and frustrated. He understood that his wife did not mean to do this, but because she had a limited level of education and could not understand the ideas of deep education and methodological education. However, this does not mean that he can give up the education of his children. So, he began to try to communicate with his wife in more artistic ways, such as telling a little lie and praising her educational methods. Then, subtly promote their own educational philosophy.
However, the process was not smooth. Every time Mr. Zhang wanted to communicate with his wife, she always blocked him for various reasons. She believes that Mr. Zhang's educational methods are too complex and not suitable for children. She firmly believes that her educational philosophy is the most correct. This made Mr. Zhang feel very distressed and helpless.
In the end, Mr. Zhang came to a conclusion: don't marry a woman with a low education, no matter how good-looking she is!Because differences in educational philosophies can lead to contradictions and conflicts between husband and wife. And this kind of contradiction and conflict will not only affect the relationship between husband and wife, but also affect the growth and future of children.
Of course, this is not to say that all women with low educational qualifications are not suitable to be wives or mothers. Everyone has their own strengths and strengths. However, when choosing a partner, we should pay more attention to the inner qualities and thinking skills of the other person, rather than just looking at appearance or education. Only in this way can we find a partner who is truly suitable for us and create a better future together. List of high-quality authors