Zhang Chaoyang said in a conversation with Yin Ye that it is recommended that young people get up early:
"The world starts running at 9 o'clock, and after you get up at 6 o'clock and think about it for three hours, you can act right away at 9 o'clock. ”
If a person can get up at 6 o'clock in the morning and think for 3 hours for a year, this person can definitely become a very good person;If you persist for ten years, you can definitely become a very successful person.
Although everyone has a brain, people who like to think are actually very rare.
Most people like to avoid thinking because thinking is troublesome and laborious.
People naturally like to run away from troubles and laborious things.
Most people would rather live a life in a state of confusion than spend even a few days thinking it through before going into life.
There is no reason. It's human nature to avoid thinking.
Human instinct only likes to think about survival and reproduction, so most people only like food and beauty, and it is painful to think about other things.
Most of the painful things are actually the things that make us grow.
When you learn Xi, you will feel pain, so if you can find a way to overcome this pain, the rewards for those who study Xi seriously are huge.
It can be painful when you work, but the rewards for those who work hard are huge.
It can be painful when you work out, but the gains for long-term fitness are huge.
Playing games, swiping mobile phones, watching dramas, watching news, eating, drinking and having fun, these things will make us happy, but if you are addicted to these things for a long time, people will be wasted.
Self-discipline is the path to growth.
Indulgence is the path to destruction.
Thinking is actually a thing that transcends the design of human beings themselves, a thing that transcends the system, and a thing that transcends the outline.
Because of this, thinking begins to evolve towards God.
The ability to think makes people the rulers of the planet.
I think in the eyes of animals, people are gods, because they are constantly conjuring up all kinds of magic, their power can destroy the heavens and the earth, and they can continue to do a lot of unbelievable things.
I myself am also a person who is Xi of avoiding thinking, and has been letting my brain "autopilot" for decades, at most occasionally making some choices, and rarely doing systematic deep thinking. So, I also paid a huge price for it.
Even if I think about it occasionally, I always stop at a superficial level.
Because I don't think much, I don't have any thinking skills, so I can't think deeply.
Even when encountering something significant, ordinary people just think about it for a moment, and then make a choice in a hurry. And powerful people will continue to think, think all night, even for days on end, until they come up with the answer they want.
Thinking doesn't always lead to the best answer, but not thinking is likely to lead to a bad choice.
It's not enough to just think, and if your cognitive level is not good, then the quality of your thinking is not high.
If you want to improve your cognition, you must read more books, do more things, and think more.
There's a saying that you can't make money that you don't know.
But that doesn't mean you can make money if you recognize it, no.
It took me a few years to improve my knowledge, but I still didn't make any money;It was only later that I realized that cognition and making money are two different things.
It can only be said that it will be relatively easier for you to make money when your awareness is high, but there is no guarantee that you will definitely be able to make money, and you need many other factors to make money, such as the project you choose, the general environment, luck, etc., all of which are indispensable.
A friend asked me how to improve my thinking skills
I said, practice. He said, how to practice?
I thought about it and thought of a solution: find a question every day, and then keep asking why, layer by layer, to think deeply, to the essence.
Like, how to choose a partner?
This question is actually worth thinking about.
I thought about my past and found that I didn't know how to choose a partner before, and I was completely controlled by "desire" when choosing a partner before, and there were only two words left in my brain - beauty.
When you see a fair-skinned and beautiful person of the opposite sex, your heart will beat faster, your hormones will overflow, your IQ will quickly drop to zero, and then you will lose your mind, start doing a lot of stupid things, stupid things, and finally do it yourself.
Now it's completely different, after a long period of thinking, now I look for a partner who only values the wisdom of the other person, because I think that the brain is 10,000 times more than the appearance.
A thinking woman is 10,000 times more than a woman with a figure.
The spark of thought friction is 10,000 times more pleasant than the spark of physical friction.
Smart is the new sexy.
IQ and mental traits are more appealing than appearances.
I used to think that it was a pity and stupid for Zhuge Liang to choose the bad-looking Huang Yueying as his wife, but now I understand that it is me who is stupid, Zhuge Liang is really wise, he is my idol.
People who are controlled by hormones are stupid, and people who can think far are smart.
Looking for a partner is to find a worthy comrade-in-arms on the battlefield of life, not to find a playmate on the playground of life, this is the result of my thinking.
Life is full of suffering, and it is more important to find a comrade-in-arms of equal strength and a confidant who can exchange ideas.
It is a great blessing in life to be able to find a partner in thought, a person who can understand what you say, can understand you, and can also have a deep communication with you, and you can be inspired from time to time in the exchange, and you will feel very comfortable, this comfort is the highest level, irreplaceable.
Physical pleasure is low, and mental pleasure is superior.
A person who fully trusts you at all times and no matter what the situation, never complains, fully supports, and never abandons you is better than anything else.
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