The marriage of children is a major event in the hearts of parents, and every parent hopes that their children can find their ideal other half and build a happy and warm family.
Since China has always followed the traditional Xi of male marriage and female marriage, in the matter of marriage, the vast majority of girls have to marry into the man's family.
Therefore, parents always have to be more concerned about their daughters who marry outside, for fear that their daughters will marry the wrong person and live unhappily after marriage.
In order to avoid a detour in marriage, as a parent of a person who has come over, you must tell your daughter: The following three kinds of men, even if they love each other, they can't marry, otherwise they will regret it, don't take it seriously.
1. Grumpy men
Marrying a short-tempered man is like putting a time bomb around you, you never know which words or actions will anger him, and his instantaneous power will bring great harm to the people around you.
There is such an example around:
Ignoring the dissuasion of her parents, the girl insisted on marrying a short-tempered man, stupidly thinking that it was a sign of the man's blood and strength.
However, not long after marriage, the girl can't stand the man's bad temper, even a sentence that is too ordinary to be ordinary can detonate the man's irritability, and then all kinds of things are thrown, and every time the family is a mess.
The girl regretted not listening to her parents, but she was married and pregnant, and it was no longer said that they were separated, and the man did not agree to divorce at all, so he could only endure it silently.
To tell the truth, marrying a short-tempered man, the future life is destined to be treading on thin ice and terrifying.
There is a saying: When I got married, I originally wanted to find someone who could shelter me from the wind and rain, but I didn't expect that the storms after marriage were brought by him.
Therefore, for the sake of their daughter's marital happiness, parents must remind their daughters to stay away from grumpy men.
2. Men who like to cry poor
In fact, in a relationship, a man cries poverty to a woman for two purposes:
One is to imply that a woman should be sensible and not spend his money. The second is that in order to seek financial assistance, he wants the woman to give him money to spend.
However, for whatever purpose, there is no doubt that this man does not love women at all.
Teacher Tu Lei once said: "Men want to save face, no matter how poor a man is, he is willing to show off his wealth in front of his beloved woman, and he will take the initiative to spend money on a woman to make her feel secure." ”
I think so. If a man really loves a woman, he will try his best to show his most glamorous side in front of a woman, and provide the best material conditions for a woman within his ability.
As the saying goes: a man's heart is in, and the money is in.
If a man always cries poor to you and doesn't care about you, in fact, most of the time it's not that he is really poor, but that he thinks you are not worth it.
If you choose to be with such a man, then your future life is destined to reduce all material desires, even if you have any requirements and pursuits for the economy, the man will use "I told you a long time ago, I am poor, and you chose to marry me" to scold you back and forth, and put all the responsibility on you.
Therefore, if you meet a man who is always crying poor in your relationship, you must stay away and never marry.
3. Selfish men
In real life, there are always some men like this:
They only know how to take, they are never willing to give, they only think about their own feelings, and never put themselves in the shoes of others;
Once there is a conflict between you, they will pick out nasty things to irritate you, belittle you, and hurt you mercilessly
When they encounter any difficulties and crises, they only think about how to protect themselves, and they don't think about your safety or ...... gain or loss at all
In the final analysis, such a man is selfish, thinking only about himself in everything and not thinking about others at all. They want everyone to be centered on them and think from their point of view, but they are not willing to make the slightest sacrifice for others.
There is a saying: You marry the right man, and he works hard for you outside;You marry the wrong man, and he wants your life at home.
That's true. If you marry such a man, then, no matter how much the woman pays in the marriage, the man takes it for granted, and there will be no gratitude and feedback at all, and even feels that the woman has not paid enough, and in the end, the woman can only be sad and desperate alone.
Conclusion: For parents who have daughters at home, it is necessary to take good care of their daughters and let their daughters avoid detours in their marital relationships.
For the happiness of your daughter in the future, as a parent, you must tell your daughter: The above three kinds of men, even if they love each other, cannot marry, so they must be remembered.
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