What can parents do if their children don't want to go to school?
The reluctance of children to go to school is a dilemma for many parents. So, when this happens to the child, what should parents do to save it?
First of all, let's learn about the "school can't adapt syndrome." This synthesisdiseaseIt is mainly manifested in the following three aspects. First, children are unable to adapt to the object of their Xi, whether it is Chinese, mathematics or English and other cultural subjects, the thought of learning Xi these, doing homework, exams, etc., will feel stress, tension and anxiety. That's the first point. Second, interpersonal stress.
Some children don't have friends at school, and some children are very sensitive and always feel that someone is talking about them and slandering them. There are also children who feel that their values do not match others and do not fit into the group. Third, they do not adapt to the school rules and environment, feeling that such rules are too rigid and dogmatic, and violate their human rights.
So, what can parents do to save their children's enthusiasm for Xi learning?First of all, it is important to understand your child's true feelings, communicate with them, and listen to them. Parents can try to guide their children to express their confusion and stress and help them find solutions to their problems. At the same time, parents can also communicate with teachers and schools to jointly provide a better learning environment and teaching methods to meet Xi needs of their children.
Secondly, building good interpersonal relationships is also very important for children's motivation Xi learning. Parents can encourage their children to participate in some interest classes and club activities to expand their social circle. At the same time, parents should also give their children enough support and encouragement to help them build self-confidence and improve their interpersonal skills.
Finally, for the school's rule environment, parents can work with their children to help them understand the importance of the rules and gradually adapt to the norms. At the same time, parents can also put forward their own suggestions and opinions through communication with teachers and schools, and jointly create a more relaxed and open learning and Xi environment.
In short, when children do not want to go to school, parents should actively communicate with their children to understand their true feelings and find solutions to solve problems. At the same time, parents should also give their children enough support and encouragement to help them establish good interpersonal relationships and adapt to the school's rules and environment. Only in this way can we work together to save children's enthusiasm for learning Xi and pave a solid path for their growth and future.