"Brother, beware of your wallet after being discharged from the army!If you are not careful, you will become a comrade-in-arms. ”
After being discharged from the army, I have to remind you that your wallet must be defended, otherwise you will wait to become a "comrade-in-arms"!Recently, I saw an article written by a brother who said that he had only been discharged from the army for three months and had lost 100,000 yuan in military pay. I can't help but feel a chill in my heart, and it also reminds me of the brother next to me who originally had a family, a car and a deposit, but after being discharged from the army, because of the wrong investment, not only was the discharge fee all gone, but even the house was sold, and the daughter-in-law also left with him, and the two children were gone. This is not a case, it is a living tragedy in reality.
1. Don't think that there are risks after leaving the military.
Some brothers may think, this kind of thing only happened after I was discharged from the army, and I haven't been discharged from the army yet, so there shouldn't be any risk. Actually, this idea couldn't be more wrong. Don't think that it's okay to be on active duty and that it will be smooth sailing when you leave the army. In fact, the management during active duty is relatively strict, and some risks have been avoided to a certain extent. Moreover, some comrades-in-arms did not have much money during their active service, so they would not invest.
However, the key to truly guarding your wallet is to strengthen your own awareness. After all, money is not idle in our hands, it is what we have exchanged for youth, freedom, and separation from our families.
Second, investment is risky, don't think you are the chosen one.
Some comrades-in-arms always feel that they are lucky and chosen people, and as long as they invest right, they can make a lot of money. But they ignore that behind successful people there are often a hundred, or even a thousand, of failed people. In particular, we have been out of society for a long time and have little investment experience, so we may fail to invest if we are not careful. To be honest, 300,000 is not easy to earn, but it may be a moment of work to lose it. Whether it is a real investment or a virtual investment, it is full of great risks. If you can't invest, don't invest, after all, the consequences of investment failure are not something that ordinary people like us can afford. Especially the brothers who are already married, they have to support the family, and they have to be more cautious and cautious.
At this time, some brothers may say that they are not too embarrassed to refuse. Yes, everyone is a face-saving person, who wants to refuse?But you say, it's better to save more face and live comfortably. Don't forget, money is used to get by, not to be used to invest in others. This point, no matter which classmate, comrade-in-arms, relatives and friends, must always be remembered.
3. Be cautious when borrowing money and don't become a "big wrongdoer".
Another point is that borrowing money can be cautious. There is a comrade-in-arms Lao Zhou, not long after he was discharged from the army, a classmate came to the door. said that he wanted to buy a house, and the money in hand was in financial management, and he had to wait 18 days to expire. However, the landlord urged the transaction, and the money on hand was not enough, so he wanted to borrow 200,000 yuan from Lao Zhou, so he turned over for 20 days. Lao Zhou looked at the financial management in his classmate's mobile phone, and there was indeed a sum of 200,000, which expired in 18 days. Thinking that they were all classmates, not to mention that it was only 20 days, and there was interest, so I borrowed it on Tuesday without saying a word. As a result, the 20-day period expired, the classmate did not return it, and Lao Zhou could not find anyone. It's been five or six years since this happened, and the classmates have disappeared, and the 200,000 yuan has not been returned. Lao Zhou has really regretted it in the past few years, and his intestines are green. I believe many comrades-in-arms have experienced this kind of borrowing money. When you borrow it, it's good, and when you ask for it, you either don't give it anyway, or you turn your face when you ask for it, and then you can't find anyone. Many comrades-in-arms have been soldiers for several years, and they have not counted the money they have lent out and cannot recover. In these years, immediate family members may not be reliable, so borrowing money must be even more prepared to go to waste.
Fourth, don't participate in activities where money is won or lost.
There is also a pitfall, that is, those entertainment activities, which win and lose tens of thousands of dollars at every turn. When a comrade-in-arms had just been discharged from the army, his classmates kept shouting to invite him to dinner, saying that he was catching the wind and washing the dust. Every time after eating, the classmates shouted that it was still early, so it was better to find a place to play cards, and said that if you play money, you will have ten yuan a handful. At first, this comrade-in-arms felt that ten yuan was not much, and his card skills were okay, so he played a few times. As a result, he lost nearly 5,000 yuan in one night. Then he shouted to play cards, played several times, and lost every time, the least one was 3,000 yuan, and the most was more than 10,000 at a time. After a few times, fifty or sixty thousand were gone. Later, he felt that something was wrong, as if his classmates had teamed up to cheat him out of money. But the money has already been exported, and if he doesn't come back, he has no choice but to admit it. This seems to be an entertainment activity, but in fact it is already gambling, and gambling is illegal. Losing money also involves breaking the law, and the danger is not small.
Fifth, cover the money bag and "recognize the money but not the person".
Finally, it's about covering your money bag. Everyone knows the phrase "recognize money but not people". Whether it is during active duty or after retirement, every penny is exchanged for youth, freedom, and separation from family. Therefore, grasping the money and not taking it out easily is something that each of us must always remember. Even if you are close relatives and friends, you can't just take it out just because you have a good relationship. Maybe some comrades-in-arms will say that if they refuse, they can't open their mouths. Indeed, everyone is a face-saving person, and they are not too embarrassed to refuse. But what can be done?If you are not married, you can say that the money is with your parents, and you can keep it for yourself to buy a house and marry a daughter-in-law. It can be said that the money is in the daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law does not give ......It's better than being a "big boss".
Conclusion: Brothers after being discharged from the army, stop letting your wallet become a "comrade-in-arms". Investment is risky, borrow money carefully, and don't easily participate in money to win or lose in recreational activities. Cover your money bag, remember to "recognize money but not people", and defend your happy life. Don't think that there is no problem during active duty, and you can easily live after leaving the army. Strengthen your own awareness, don't be a "chosen one", be cautious. Money, although not everything, is indeed impossible without money. Brothers, don't let your hard-earned money come to naught in an instant. Grasp every penny and keep your happiness.