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A few days ago, Zhang Xuefeng, a well-known training teacher, said in a live broadcast that all service industries should be "licked", which was on the hot search, with more than 200 million reads.
On December 9, in the face of the fermentation of **, Zhang Xuefeng had to apologize on Weibo.
Am I wrong again?It seems that he only sensed the pressure before he said the words of apology.
Later, he added that it is not bad to do service, he himself is in the service industry, but he just "licks" the parents of students.
However, the more the explanation becomes, the more outrageous it becomes, everyone has their own interpretation, some people say that Zhang Xuefeng did not sincerely apologize, and some people agree with Zhang Xuefeng's opinion.
Zhang Xuefeng became a celebrity for his public remarks
In 1984, Zhang Xuefeng was born in a poor family in Fufu County, Qiqihar City, Heilongjiang Province, and stayed in Qiqihar City before high school.
The monthly economic income barely maintains food and clothing, and the pockets are cleaner than the face, and it is precisely because the family has tasted poverty that they all support Zhang Xuefeng to study to change their fate.
Zhang Xuefeng studied hard, asked questions if he didn't understand, didn't know how to study, gave full play to the spirit of learning Xi to the extreme, and finally lived up to expectations, and was admitted to Zhengzhou University, a 211 university in Henan, with his hard work.
Life is as calm as water, but I didn't expect that an inadvertent thing happened in my senior year, but it laid the foundation for Zhang Xuefeng's later career.
It turned out that a roommate asked him to help collect information about graduate schools, and in the process of collecting, he slowly became interested in graduate school information, but he didn't pay much attention to it.
After graduating, Zhang Xuefeng suddenly found that the postgraduate entrance examination counseling was indeed very marketable, so he went to Beijing to devote himself to the postgraduate entrance examination counselor. At first, Mr. Zhang Xuefeng was not popular, which made him discouraged and depressed for a while.
Later, he immersed himself in researching relevant materials, and figured out a set of "scolding" teaching methods, as well as humorous and realistic expression styles, which have always succeeded in gaining more and more people's love and attention.
In 2016, a ** article on how to quickly interpret the information of 985 colleges and universities was published, which quickly entered the public eye.
Because of his professionalism, Zhang Xuefeng appeared on the screen many times to answer everyone's questions. His Weibo followers are as high as 74570,000 people.
Even if Zhang Xuefeng is so famous, because he does not have a Beijing hukou, it is difficult for his children to go to school. Later, he went to Suzhou, Jiangsu Province to start his own company.
This incident made Zhang Xuefeng move from the palace of ideals to the naked reality, and his thinking also changed at this moment, so he knew the difficulties of poor people and the hardships of having no money.
A teacher with a keen mind and a history of ups and downs dares to break the conventional thinking and tell the "big truth", which has also brought him to the cusp of the first many times.
I deeply believe that where there are rivers and lakes, there will be controversy.
Most parents become nervous when their children are born, and they are afraid of making mistakes in any link and become cautious. Choosing a major in college used to be a lifelong thing, and parents were deeply afraid that their children would enter the wrong industry and delay their lifelong happiness.
On the one hand, there is the ardent hope of parents, and on the other hand, the students' beautiful fantasy of Ivory Tower University. The results of the college entrance examination came out, and a few families were happy and a few were sad. No matter what the result is, they finally survived the darkest time, and some people even tore the book to relieve the "hatred" of gnawing on the book.
I believe that most people have almost heard that "it is easy to get admitted to university". Everything seems to be a foregone conclusion, and going to college is foolproof.
The times are developing, and society is progressing. The general environment is that many college students are unemployed after graduation. As a result, a considerable number of students began the road to graduate school.
However, for the average family, going to college is already a luxury. Therefore, in 2021, Zhang Xuefeng began to guide how to fill in the college entrance examination again, so that poor students can avoid detours in choosing university majors, avoid stepping on pitfalls, and increase employment opportunities.
For example, Zhang Xuefeng does not recommend children from ordinary families to apply for medical majors.
Because the medical major has a long Xi cycle, it requires a high degree of education, and it takes five years of college, not only to take the postgraduate examination for three years, but also to take the doctoral examination. For a long time it costs money from the family. When I go to work, I have to start as a resident doctor, and the salary is not high, and it is difficult to reduce the financial burden on my family.
Zhang Xuefeng also advised female students not to apply for finance majors. Because if a girl wants to mix well in finance and make money, she has to be beautiful and drink.
Maybe it's because I've been in the rain and knows how to shelter others from the wind and rain. Mr. Zhang Xuefeng considers how poor students choose majors from the perspective of ordinary families, and majors are also related to employment to a certain extent.
Moreover, Mr. Zhang Xuefeng also has a thoughtful suggestion for girls who are not good at Xi, that is, to apply for Southeast University. The reason is that it is not only easy to find a partner, but also to find a job. I don't know if you in front of the screen were warmed by Mr. Zhang Xuefeng's words?
Some people think that Zhang Xuefeng has ulterior motives, and he said this purely to attract attention and gain traffic.
Society is a big dye vat, and Zhang Xuefeng's kindness may have turned into earning for some people.
In June 2023, when Zhang Xuefeng was live streaming on an online platform, a mother asked her if her child should choose journalism. The child scored 590 points in the exam, and because he likes journalism, he wants to choose a journalism major in the college entrance examination.
After Zhang Xuefeng listened, he suggested not to choose liberal arts, even if he wanted to choose liberal arts, he should not choose journalism. At that time, there was a heated discussion.
In late June, Zhang Xuefeng once again emphasized that the major determines the future life track, and everyone should combine their own disciplinary advantages and other factors to fill in the volunteers.
Mr. Zhang Xuefeng's remarks attracted a serious response from the dean of the Department of Journalism and Communication of a university in Chongqing, stating that everyone should not be misled by Mr. Zhang Xuefeng's words.
The benevolent see the benevolent, and the wise see the wise. If you think about it, both of them are right.
Zhang Xuefeng once said that the objects of his guidance are children from ordinary families, and for these children, there are only one or two opportunities, and they can't afford to spend time or money. Seeking stability and employment is their demand for going to university.
Those students who are desperately admitted to the big city, stay in the big city to work, worry about renting a house every month, the closer to the city center, the more expensive the rent, so they choose a farther house, and have to bear the hard work of the daily commute.
It's really hard to go to school, it's hard to go to work, and it's even harder to live.
Mr. Zhang Xuefeng's suggestion is not unreasonable, but it is not a gold standard, and it is applicable to some people and certain conditions. I hope everyone can look at Mr. Zhang Xuefeng's words with a "critical" eye.
Recently, Mr. Zhang Xuefeng mentioned that the service industry is "licking". The word "licking" has lowered the status of the service industry, although Mr. Zhang Xuefeng admits that he is also engaged in the service industry.
No matter what, Mr. Zhang Xuefeng apologized, everyone still has to return to their own tracks, improve day by day, and live their own lives.
The more influential a public figure is, the greater the responsibility.
Internet celebrity teachers openly express their remarks and allow them to say things that do not reach their meaning.
If people don't think, they are like duckweed without roots, and life becomes drifting with the flow.
Looking at a word is praise and disapproval, combining the context and understanding the background, rather than judging right and wrong from the literal meaning and from your own feelings.
In the whole world, no one is perfect, he said the wrong thing, Zhang Xuefeng apologized, and he had to face it with a tolerant attitude.