Today we're going to talk about something exciting - getting your ex-girlfriend back! Sounds interesting, right?
First of all, you have to understand that people have a psychological mechanism that makes us want to pursue things that we can't have. Because of this, we will work hard and keep moving forward. That's why this psychological mechanism is so powerful.
So the question is, how does this psychological mechanism work? Think about it, why did your ex-girlfriend break up with you? Is it because she feels that you need her more than she needs you? So, the key is to make her feel that you have let go, that you are doing well and happy. That way, she will start to wonder, why are you putting it so fast? Are you meeting other people? How are you doing now?
Of course, you also have to avoid some fatal mistakes in the process. For example, don't argue with her about the reason for the breakup, even if you win? This will only make her more negating of you. And don't pester her endlessly, stalk her behavior, or complain to mutual friends. This will only make her think you are annoying. Also, don't make her feel like you can't live without her, and don't tell her over and over again how much you love her. Don't take the initiative to break off diplomatic relations because you feel that there is no hope of recovery, which will only cut you off. Finally, don't blindly listen to the advice of your friends, they are not relationship experts after all, and their ideas may not be comprehensive enough.
Therefore, if you want to win back your ex-girlfriend, you must control your emotional needs, live your own life, and lay a good foundation in order to be invincible in the future! If you think of recovery as a strategic thing, then you will understand that there is more meaning in executing it!