"Turning in my graduated son makes me worried", the parents admitted that it was difficult to raise children, and netizens were silent after reading it
Being admitted to a prestigious school is not only a dream goal for students, but also a wish for parents to look forward to. The status of a student at a prestigious university symbolizes a broader range of possibilities, but achieving this goal requires a greater effort from students, especially at the top universities in China.
In the context of the pursuit of academic qualifications, academic qualifications have become a "passport" for graduates to find jobs. College students with the aura of a prestigious university usually take the initiative in the job market, but to get into a prestigious school, they usually need excellent college entrance examination results, extraordinary professional ability, and selfless support from their parents.
Parents pay a huge price for their children to go to college, mainly to ensure that their children can live a better life in the future and no longer worry about making ends meet. If a student can be admitted to a prestigious school, it will also become a source of pride for parents, but when the child actually graduates from a prestigious school, some parents find that the child who is admitted to a prestigious school still makes people feel anxious.
My son graduated from Shanghai Jiao Tong University, and I was really anxious about it. A parent complained to netizens that it was not easy to raise a child, causing a silence.
As one of the famous universities in China, Shanghai Jiao Tong University is a famous engineering school, second only to Tsinghua University and Peking University. The students who can enter Shanghai Jiaotong University are basically the top students in various provinces and cities, so in the eyes of parents, this is also a kind of decency, representing the success of family education.
A parent asked for help online, faced with his son's future and family problems, and fell into an unsolvable dilemma. To put it bluntly, my son graduated from Shanghai Jiaotong University, which made me feel worried and complained that it was not easy to raise a child. Netizens also fell silent after seeing this situation, which is indeed a worrying scene.
After graduating from Shanghai Jiaotong University, if students want to stay in Shanghai for development, after all, they are famous students and have lived in this big city for four years. Development in big cities may be more able to show personal value, and the expected annual salary is also expected to reach about 200,000 yuan.
However, when it comes to life issues after work, including love, marriage, and housing, problems follow. The girlfriend proposed to settle down in Shanghai and buy a house, and under the traditional concept, it is normal for the man to buy a house. But the parent faced a tricky dilemma.
The annual income of the son and his girlfriend is about 400,000 yuan, and the demand for buying a house in Shanghai is about 12 million, and the son and his wife can borrow a maximum of 6 million yuan. Parents need to scrape together 6 million, but the only assets of the parents are two houses, which together are only 4 million, which is not enough to buy a house.
The parents began to regret that if they had not let their son develop in the big city, maybe the salary would be low, but at least it would not have been insufficient to finance a house. Moreover, prices in Shanghai are high, and even if you buy a house in Shanghai, your family's living expenses are unsustainable.
The son is at a critical moment in his marriage, and the parents are in a dilemma, not knowing what to do. While the final solution is not yet clear, it is indeed a stark example of the long-term factors that college students need to consider when finding employment and choosing a partner.
College graduates become the elite in society, they dominate in terms of income and ability, but there are careful trade-offs when choosing a city for employment. Different graduates face their own unique circumstances, and the choice of employment should not be taken lightly.
Graduates of prestigious universities become the best among university students, and they stand out with their outstanding abilities and academic qualifications. However, even if the annual salary reaches about 200,000 yuan, it may not be eye-catching in a big city like Shanghai, and even among graduates of elite schools, it is considered a low-income group.
It is a normal desire to choose to develop in a big city, pursue a career and build a family. However, many college students tend to ignore family and personal conditions. Taking the purchase of a house as an example, the need to buy a house that costs 12 million yuan is neither able to provide a down payment nor cope with the future mortgage for parents.
It's an undeniable reality that no matter what path is ultimately chosen, there will always be compromises that need to be made on one side. Both the graduates themselves and the woman's family may be implicated in this process. This also reminds many college students that they must think carefully when choosing a city for employment, and they also need to be careful about choosing a mate and settling down. Planning should be sound from the start to avoid complications in the future.
What are the key issues that college graduates need to pay attention to when choosing a city for employment?
First, consider the employment prospects and salary package. Graduates enter the workforce to work and serve others, so income and career development space become primary concerns. Some majors are popular, and college students with high academic qualifications can better play their advantages in big cities, while others may yearn for a stable life and choose to return to their hometowns or third- and fourth-tier small cities. In these places, there is relatively less competitive pressure, and while income may be less, the cost of living is also more friendly.
Secondly, consider the hard-working degree of college students. If college students are willing to put in the hard work and are not afraid of hardship, it may be more suitable to choose to work in a big city. In such an environment, a high salary can save expenses, and it is possible to accumulate a considerable wealth in a few years, which also provides a certain amount of confidence for returning to his hometown in the future.
In addition, the individual's abilities need to be considered. Even graduates from prestigious schools have high and low levels of ability. Some students earn millions a year, while others don't earn much in big cities. In this case, serious consideration needs to be given to whether it is necessary to remain in the current city. Sometimes, with the help of work experience and education in a big city, there may be better opportunities for development in a small city.
In general, college graduates should weigh various factors according to their personal circumstances when choosing a city for employment. Not all students are suited to a career in a big city, so careful consideration is needed to make a win-win choice that meets the needs of personal development and life.
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