The list of high-quality authors Some people say:
Bitterness is the true color of life, and happiness is an interlude, just like a cup of coffee, some people like the original flavor, and some people like to add a little sugar. With the addition of sugar, even if it is only a little bit, it will be sweet to the heart. ”
Everyone has their own life, everyone has their own life trajectory, but no matter what, everyone's experience is similar.
But we also have to believe that even such a small difference has a lot in it.
Therefore, when we become more and more transparent, or after we have suffered enough in reality, and understand more truths, we will understand that after suffering, we must be kind to ourselves and cherish the present.
Suffering is the reality of life
Bitterness is the background color of life.
In life, everyone has the element of suffering, and everyone has a painful process.
In such a painful process, each of us sometimes feels helpless and powerless, and sometimes we will try our best to get rid of it and break free from the shackles.
Of course, if people want to get out of the predicament, or break through the circle, they need to pay a price.
These costs, there will definitely be people who choose to be perfunctory, and now they always want to get away with it, and some people are willing to face it and work hard.
These two very different choices are destined to shape different lives.
Obviously, those who choose to be greedy for pleasure in the early stage will live more and more passively, more and more confused, and even more and more painful in the following days.
On the contrary, people who choose to bear hardships and stand hard work in the early stage will continue to learn from experience, accumulate resources, and strengthen their abilities, and eventually become more and more outstanding and powerful.
Bitterness, although it is given by life, can be processed by oneself to make it a kind of honey in our lives.
Laughter is the attitude of life
In the face of the hardships of life, some people choose to cry, complain, and hold grudges, and choose hatred.
But some people are also facing the hardships and unwillingness of life, and still face the impermanence and complaints of life.
In the same way, these two completely different attitudes towards suffering will inevitably lead to different realms of life.
The level of life is destined to the quality of life.
Lin Yutang said:"In life, it's not about sometimes laughing at others, sometimes smiling at others. ”
You have to understand that in the years, there is nothing that cannot be washed away by time. In life, there is indeed nothing that cannot be overcome.
Life is the same, if you have a laughing, calm, and relaxed attitude, then you will live a more peaceful life, you will live more freely, and even happier.
Obviously, if you live a little more clearly and have a more open-minded attitude towards life and life, then there will not be too many unsatisfactory in this life.
Because you have to believe that a large part of a person's troubles and unsatisfactory are self-inflicted.
Instead of constantly self-friction or being consumed by others, it is better to smile, look at the understate, and see through and through.
It's good to think about it that way.
After suffering, smile and pass
Life is hard, if you can't stand it, then sooner or later you will be hurt all over your body, and your life will be a mess.
You must know that the real strength lies in the fact that we can still face tomorrow with a smile after suffering.
In fact, whether it is bitter or happy, it is just a state of mind, if life is all suffering, we will definitely live a sad and hopeless life.
However, we also need to think about it, if life is all about happiness, then is this kind of life experience also particularly boring?
Therefore, after suffering, tiredness, pain, and choosing to smile, this is an open-minded and cheerful attitude towards life, and naturally I will live a happier and more complete life because of such a state.