A good drama that has been brushed n times There is no doubt that Mrs. Wang is on the side of the "golden and jade good relationship", and it is precisely under the influence of Mrs. Wang that Yuan Chun only prepared Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu the same way in the Dragon Boat Festival ceremony for the sisters, which made Jia Baoyu very depressed and Lin Daiyu sad. Mrs. Wang not only supports Jinyu Liangyuan, but is also very likely to be the initiator of Jinyu Liangyuan. 
However, if you say how much Mrs. Wang likes Xue Baochai and how much she hates Lin Daiyu, I don't think that's the case. Mrs. Wang will choose Xue Baochai, in addition to personal preference, more comprehensive considerations. And not just because, she wants to prevent her son from marrying his beloved. Mrs. Wang, although she eats fasting and recites Buddha all day long, flaunts kindness and compassion, but she is hard-hearted and cold-hearted, and has neither strong vitality nor much enthusiasm. In Jia Baoyu's marriage, she thinks more about practical factors and the amount of benefits.
Mrs. Wang and Mother Jia's criteria for selecting people are also very different, and Mother Jia likes those who have personality and passion, such as Sister Feng and Qingwen. And the people that Mrs. Wang likes are Xue Baochai, Raider and others, they are all sleek and deep in the city, and they are good at disguise.
But does Mrs. Wang really like them?No, Mrs. Wang doesn't have much love for her own son Jia Baoyu. When Jia Baoyu was beaten into a pig's head by Jia Zheng, Jia's mother pointed at Jia Zheng's nose and scolded, hating him for being dead, how could Baoyu stand it.
Mrs. Wang cried and grabbed the ground, and for a while she thought of the dead Jia Zhu, she cried that if Jia Zhu was still there, she would kill a hundred Baoyu, and she wouldn't care. Jia Baoyu is more like her support for the rest of her life, she cries Jia Baoyu, cries Jia Zhu, and cries more about herself, feeling hopeless.
In the same way, Mrs. Wang's so-called liking for Xue Baochai and attacking people is not from the bottom of her heart. It's because they let her see the qualities she wants to see. They are stable and reliable, generous and low-key, and more importantly, they always think about Jia Baoyu and persuade Jia Baoyu to make progress and take the right path.
This coincides with Mrs. Wang's concept, coupled with Xue Baochai and the raiders taking the initiative to show favor in front of Mrs. Wang, which won Mrs. Wang's favor. But this kind of affection is not because of how much Mrs. Wang really likes them personally. Mrs. Wang sees them more as partners or tool people, who can cooperate and are also very easy to handle. It can be seen how practical Mrs. Wang is.
Therefore, Mrs. Wang chose Xue Baochai not because of how much she likes Xue Baochai. is because, compared with Lin Daiyu, Xue Baochai is indeed a daughter-in-law who is more in line with the standards in her heart. But if there is a better object to consider, Mrs. Wang does not necessarily have to insist on Baochai.
After all, no matter how good Xue Baochai is, she is just a niece. Looking at Mrs. Wang's attitude towards her other niece, Sister Feng, it is very clear. When you need to be used, you have to go, if there is anything wrong, only you ask, when you don't need you, it is okay to unload the mill and kill the donkey.
Mrs. Wang's criterion for choosing a daughter-in-law is whether she can bring more benefits to Jiafu, her son, and herself. From her point of view, there doesn't seem to be anything wrong with that. She really doesn't like Xue Baochai much. But Xue Baochai was indeed the standard of a good wife and mother in that era.
Even today, Xue Baochai can confuse a large group of people. You must be good-looking, healthy, emotionally stable, know how to behave in the world, be educated and knowledgeable, and be a female celebrity, everything is not bad, and your attitude is very humble. Isn't this a daughter-in-law that mothers-in-law are vying for?
Let's talk about Lin Daiyu again. Lin Daiyu is indeed the person Jia Baoyu cares about the most. This is not a secret in Jiafu. If it is put in modern times, the elders should not interfere too much in the lifelong affairs of their children, but in ancient times, marriage was based on the orders of parents and the words of matchmakers.
Moreover, in ancient society, it was about the right person, not any love. When the ancients mentioned love, they often had an attitude of avoiding it and felt shameful. How could Mrs. Wang, because Jia Baoyu likes Lin Daiyu, she will fulfill them?
If it is said that Mrs. Wang chose Xue Baochai for the sake of interests, her attitude towards Lin Daiyu is even more complicated. From the actual situation, is Lin Daiyu a good marriage partner?First of all, look at her family background, Lin Daiyu at this time is already fatherless and motherless, living in her grandmother's house, and there is nothing to rely on. If Lin Daiyu's parents are still alive, with her family background, Jia Baoyu is actually unworthy. Besides, Lin Daiyu is sick and has been taking medicine since she can eat. Such a woman, even if there are a bunch of people waiting around her, there are not many good times in a year. If she gets married, can she be a good helper, can she take care of the house?Even if she has talent, can her body withstand it?
How can she reproduce offspring and spread out for her husband's family?And her lifespan will not be long?These practical problems are always seen more clearly and considered more by the onlooker.
In addition to being sick, Lin Daiyu is also sentimental, although she is talented and sincere, her emotions are changeable, and her poor physical condition forms a vicious circle. In ancient times, women were not talented to be virtuous, although Lin Daiyu was talented, but her talent was accompanied by a high-sensitivity temperament.
Mrs. Wang lives like a piece of wood, of course she will not empathize with Lin Daiyu, and she does not choose a talented daughter when she chooses a daughter-in-law. She wants the kind of person who looks simple and can do things. Lin Daiyu was evaluated as stingy and narrow-minded in Jiafu, and compared with the generous Xue Baochai, the gap came out all of a sudden.
What's more, Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are truly in love with each other. Although true love is invincible, this is what Mrs. Wang fears the most. She has never experienced love, and she can't understand the so-called love, what she sees is that her son was influenced by Lin Daiyu and manipulated, Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu had awkward quarrels several times, and the trouble was earth-shattering.
Although Mrs. Wang didn't react, could she feel comfortable?If Jia Baoyu marries Lin Daiyu, it is precisely because they love each other too much and care too much about each other that it is easier to live a thrilling life.
And Jia Baoyu doesn't like Xue Baochai, it won't cause emotional ups and downs, and it won't make Jia Baoyu crazy, happy and sad. Mrs. Wang doesn't care whether her son and daughter-in-law love each other, what she cares about is whether the days are peaceful and whether the daughter-in-law can afford to be a good wife and lead her son to the right path. In fact, this wish was not excessive in the era and social background at that time. From Mrs. Wang's point of view, Lin Daiyu is unpleasant, and the more Jia Baoyu likes Lin Daiyu, the more Mrs. Wang dislikes her. This dislike, of course, also carries a little prejudice.
Lin Daiyu was born to Jia's mother's favorite daughter, and Mrs. Wang couldn't be very cold to Jia's mother and Jia Min. As for Lin Daiyu making Jia Baoyu dizzy, this is even more unacceptable to Mrs. Wang.
The son is not motivated, the son loves to get into trouble, and Mrs. Wang will also indirectly blame Lin Daiyu. Although she didn't say anything, she disposed of a large group of girls in Yihong Courtyard, and gave them fox spirit hats, and some just said a few more words to Jia Baoyu. Mrs. Wang just didn't dare to move Lin Daiyu, but what did she think in her heart, did she need to say more?
Mrs. Wang may not choose Xue Baochai, because she doesn't like Xue Baochai very much. But I will definitely not choose Lin Daiyu. Lin Daiyu is Jia Baoyu's favorite person, but in the face of reality, Lin Daiyu's conditions are not satisfactory to Mrs. Wang.
She is too beautiful, she is too weak, she is too temperamental, she is too good at handling her son. Let's just say that these conditions are put in modern society, as a mother-in-law, will you really like such a daughter-in-law?Or, is you willing to accept such a daughter-in-law?Of course, in modern society, mother-in-law is not qualified to find fault with her daughter-in-law, after all, marriage is autonomous.
But this is love, no matter what kind of person Lin Daiyu is in the eyes of others, in Jia Baoyu's heart, Lin Daiyu is the best, even if there are some shortcomings, it is also cute and charming.
He was willing to pity her illness, she was in a bad mood, he was willing to coax, the poems she wrote, he read them attentively, and her smile touched his heart. Even if everyone is against it, they can't let him give up loving her. Because of love, there is no need to explain to others, let alone a reason.
Although Mrs. Wang would choose Xue Baochai, she couldn't change Jia Baoyu's mind. Even in ancient times when patriarchy was prevalent, there were always people who refused to compromise for the sake of their hearts and love.
After Lin Daiyu died of illness, Jia Baoyu had nothing to love, even if he married Xue Baochai, he finally had no nostalgia, never looked back, and walked into a white land. I don't know if Mrs. Wang at that time also felt a trace of regret?