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Children's education has always been the focus of parents' attention, whether it is primary school, junior high school, high school, or even university entrance examination, public entrance examination, etc., parents' anxiety and anxiety are inevitable, and I am the same. But to find a way to solve the problem, first respect the child, love the child, and then guide it correctly, and at the same time control your emotions, believe that excellent children can be educated, and we must find the best way to educate our children. Don't worry, take your time, it will definitely get better and better.
My son is now in the first grade, and it is very difficult to keep up with the pinyin learning Xi at the beginning, I am easy to get angry, loud, and even scolding, my son is always sad and depressed, and I am also in a bad mood. Through reading books and learning Xi, by searching for good experience and practices from the Internet, by chatting with Xiaolai and colleagues, etc., slowly learn Xi reflect on and change, slowly adjust their emotions, adjust their ways and attitudes to educate their children, and everything slowly becomes better. In the midterm exam, my son scored 95 points in mathematics and 97 points in Chinese, and then my son also scored 100 points in Chinese and mathematics. Now I am also slowly guiding my son to pre-Xi Chinese and mathematics in advance, reading and reciting after class Xi my son is learning more easily, and he is becoming more and more confident, I also slowly feel that my mood has improved, my attitude has softened, my tone has softened, my son has become more and more relaxed, and our relationship is getting better and better. Every night after the Xi school, my son will play a game with me, I also deliberately let him move, sweat all over, after the exercise to sleep quickly, after a while, I fell asleep, and I slept very deeply, in the morning I was full of energy, and I was happy to watch.
It is said that parents can study hard Xi, so that children can improve every day. Recently, I have been reading Fan Deng's "Understanding Children's Hearts", which is very helpful and recommends it to everyone. Learn Xi together, work together!
Touching the Dragon and Saying the Empress Dowager Zhao", the trembling Touch Dragon persuaded the Empress Dowager Zhao: "The beloved son of the parents is far-reaching", if Zhao Guo does not let Chang'anjun contribute to Zhao Guo, once the mountain collapses, how can Chang'anjun entrust himself to Zhao. If you truly love your children, you should love them in the right way and think far-reaching. Educate children in the right way, teach them the correct code of conduct, and lay a good foundation for a good life in the future.
Zeng Guopan, the minister of Zhongxing of the Doomsday Dynasty, is a model in this regard. He used traditional Chinese culture to strictly regulate the words and deeds of his children, and he was able to teach them according to their aptitude, so that their children could develop according to their natural nature. It is precisely because of his "love for his children in a way and far-reaching" that his descendants have not seen any children, but nearly 100 people are people who have made great achievements in the academic world. Zeng Guopan constantly taught his children how to learn, behave, and read through letters, standardized their behavior, and cultivated their good learning Xi and behavioral Xi. More than 1,000 handwritten letters, sprinkled with more than a million words, full of a father's brother's love for his children.
Coincidentally, "Fu Lei's Family Letter" also contains a father's warmth for his son, and in the words of Mr. Jin Yong, it is also a Chinese gentleman who teaches his children how to be a real Chinese gentleman.
Educating children is a profound knowledge, and it is a course that needs to keep pace with the times, but it is always changing, and its sect is "the way of love, and the far-reaching plan".