In today's society, mobile phones have become an indispensable part of people's lives, not only as a communication tool, but also as a payment and entertainment function. However, for children, playing with mobile phonesgamesbecame a controversial topic. Some parents believe that playinggamesIt will be "playful" and not conducive to the growth and development of children;While other parents are in favor of moderationgames, which is believed to be beneficial to the child's intellectual development. This article will play from two different ways to treat childrengamesFrom the perspective of the family, ** is allowed to play from an early agegamesand forbidden to fightgamesDifferences in the growth of children.
Since childhood, it has not been forbidden to fightgamesKids, like Hao Hao, rightgamesWith a certain amount of contact, he was able to see it correctlygamesrole and use it as a way to relax and spice up. As a result, he was able to control himself very well even at the college levelgamestime, not indulging in it. In contrast, Zi Rui is strictly forbidden because he is in the familygames, which led him to indulge "with a vengeance" in collegegames, ingamesseeks to "compensate" themselves. This made him uncontrollable, for a long timegamesIt affected academics.
In college, Zirui has always been obsessed withgames, which raises all sorts of questions. In contrast, Hao Hao excelled in college and excelled in his grades, a difference that stems mainly from their perception ofgamesof self-control. For Hao Hao,gamesJust a part of his life that he was able to makegamesCoordinate with learning and grasp it wellgamesrhythm and timing;And Zi Rui was forbidden to fight since he was a childgames, rightgamesFull of yearning and longing, once touchedgames, inadversariably addicted to it.
Zirui indulgedgames, not only had a negative impact on learning, but also weakened hisSocial skills。The roommate in the same dormitory objected to Zi Rui's all-night beatinggamesbut Zi Rui turned a blind eye to this, which led to the deepening dissatisfaction of his roommates against him. At the same time, other college students actively participate in club activities and make new friends, while Zi Rui is addicted to the virtualgamesThe world cannot be integrated into real-life interactions and communication. In contrast, Hao Hao is fightinggamesAt the same time, I also made many like-minded friends and exercised myselfSocial skills。He was able to balancegamesand real life, enjoy the joy of friendship and socialization.
Exceptgamesaddiction, Zirui's relationship with his parents is also strained. Because his parents have always been strict with him, when Zi Rui went to college, it was difficult for them to communicate effectively, and Zi Rui always hung up in a hurry. In addition, Zirui also showed extreme disgust at his parents' visit. On the contrary, Hao Hao and his parents have always maintained a good relationship, they are as close as friends and have a lot of common topics. This harmonious parent-child relationship has a lot to do with Haohao's parents' concept of "Buddhist" parenting.
Playing is allowed from an early agegamesand forbidden to fightgameschildren show significant differences in their growth. Zirui has been banned from playing for a long timegames, causing him to become uncontrollably addicted to it, affecting his academics, socialization, and relationships with his parents. In contrast, Hao Hao is allowed to play in the familygames, he was able to put it in perspectivegamesrole, and to be able to control their owngamestime, which allowed him to play to the fullestgamesPositive impact on learning and socializing.
Therefore, as a parent, play in the treatment of childrengamesIn terms of attitude, it is not appropriate to blindly prohibit or condone it, but to reach a consensus with the child and formulate it togethergamesTime and rules. ModerategamesIt is good for children's development and can develop their self-controlSocial skillsIt also helps to relax and ton. Parents should get rid of the rightgamesThe inherent prejudice is used to guide children to look at and use it correctly in a way that is "sparse" rather than "blocked".games。Rather than letting the child have an addictiongamesIt is better to make an agreement with them on the rules and train them rightgamesAttitudes and habits.
Finally,gamesThere is no absolute good or bad for a child's developmentCriticalIt lies in the guidance and supervision of parents. Parents should use the right attitude and methods to guide their children to view and use them correctlygames, implementationgamesCoordinated development with learning and social interaction.