"Once people have a barrier, they really can't get close, and the broken rope has a knot no matter how it is tied. In this world, there is only reconciliation, not as before, reconciliation is easy, but it is too difficult to be reconciled. You think I'm scheming because the person who swallowed the grievance is not you, and the old account is brought up again because it has never been properly resolved. ”Cheating is a serious act of murder, stabbing in the back, and rubbing salt in the wound. A cheating person will never understand how painful it is to be cheated, and a cheating person will never know how vicious a cheating person is. The cheated person will feel anger, betrayal, disappointment, self-blame and other complex emotions, and at the same time, they will also feel lost, uneasy and afraid of their marriage and future.
For cheaters, they rarely feel guilt, regret, and shame. Not only that, but they may also feel taken for granted and vibrate!even blamed his unbearable betrayal on the person who was cheated.
After cheating, it is even more difficult to reconcile with the marriage after the derailment than to ascend to the sky. Cheating is undoubtedly the biggest killer of marriage, one of the most serious betrayals in marriage, and for the injured party, it is simply the fall of the sky, life is worse than death. I even think it's better to let the betrayer and his cheating partner join forces to directly kill themselves, which is more enjoyable!
Married life after the infidelity is like a ruined ruin after a storm, scarred, as if it can no longer be pieced together. Once trust collapses, how easy is it to rebuild it?
How much the betrayed person trusts the betrayer in the first place, how suspicious he will be after being betrayed!Once bitten by a snake, he was afraid of the well rope for ten years. What was once a conviction has become a suspicious ghost in the future. Experienced betrayal and betrayal, without any trust at all.
After experiencing a betrayal marriage, it is easy to reconcile, but it is too difficult to be the same!One part, two wide, the rest of your life is long. It is difficult to reunite after breaking the mirror, and people who betray their feelings do not deserve to be forgiven!Once forgiven, it is likely to give yourself a second chance to be hurt.As long as one of the husband and wife cheats, the moment of cheating, the death of the marriage has actually been pronounced. Even if it is due to special circumstances, a marriage that lasts for a long time is only a real existence!No matter how much reconciliation is made, it is just a performance of happiness in front of people and a performance of pain in the future. Marriage requires faithfulness!Marriage needs trust!Loyalty is absent, trust is absent!How can marriage exist?
The damage that infidelity can do to a marriage is profound and long-lasting. Not only does it undermine trust between couples, but it also damages the injured partner's self-esteem and self-confidence. The biggest harm of infidelity is that the damage it causes will continue and hurt repeatedly.
All the people who hurt you, do it on purpose, and he has weighed the pros and cons before hurting you. He will keep comparing and finally choose to hurt you, because he will pay the least price for hurting you and will gain greater benefits. This is indeed the truth, brutal but very real.Once a marriage breaks down, it is as difficult to repair it as it is to stitch a wound that can never be completely closed. However, whether there is still a chance for a marriage to be stitched up depends on whether both parties are willing to put in the effort and find the willingness to rebuild in the midst of their injuries.
However, no matter how hard you try, the end result is likely to be futile. Because the picture of derailment will always be deeply imprinted in the mind of the person who was cheated, and it will linger for a lifetime!It's like a stuck disc, looping over and over again**. The heartache and heartache of the betrayed are like a bone erosion, and the heart is like a knife, and there is no return!
Mo Yan, a famous contemporary writer, said: "The people who betray you, the people who hurt you, the people who deceive you, the people who don't respect you, and the people who turn their faces with you, these people are not worthy of your sincerity." If someone makes you feel uncomfortable, trust your feelings, it's not the same thing. In the face of such people, the best option is to keep your distance. ”
A betrayed marriage is like a thorn in your heart, when you are happy, it will prick you, and when you are unhappy, it will also prick you. If the mangs are on the back, it is difficult to sleep and eat!A marriage that has experienced betrayal is like a broken mirror, even if it is glued with super glue, it will never return to its original appearance!A betrayed marriage is like a mobile phone that fell into the toilet, dirty, smelly, not picked up, reluctant, it's a pity;I picked it up, and it broke, even if it wasn't broken, it couldn't be used, it was too disgusting!