In the vast sea of people, why some people are especially loved by the opposite sex, the key secret depends on four words: attention, attraction.
This is also the law of attraction mentioned in "Murphy's Law", which refers to the fact that both parties rely on each other to attract each other to achieve the progression from love to love. It can also be said that the two people who can get love can't say that the other party is good, and they don't even have sweet words, nor are they smart and handsome.
1. When bad things are presented, face them with a mindset of contemplation.
Xi helplessness leads to a belief that the presentation of tragedy is uncontrollable, and thus decreases a sense of dominance over life. These people may make good excuses for their losses early on, attributing the cause to force majeure. But we can't afford to fall into the trap of Xi helplessness. Assuming that there is indeed a tragedy or a loss, let's face it with a smile, and we must look at these things with a contemplative attitude.
2. The Lucifer effect
The Lucifer effect comes from the "Stanford Prison Experiment" conducted by American social psychologist Philip Zimbardo.
Subjects were randomly divided into two groups: jailers and prisoners, and then placed in a simulated prison environment. In the beginning, the experimenters tried to play the role they had set. But then, the situation spiraled out of control. The original simple college students have slowly turned into brutal and vicious jailers and submissive prisoners.
The Lucifer effect embodies the evil side of human nature, but these are usually suppressed by our consciousness, and once they reach a specific situation and are stimulated by the environment, these evils will erupt.
3. There will always be a plan B.
Murphy's Law tells us that things can always go bad, so we should also have a plan for dealing with bad things. Only by considering failure can we turn the tide. Although the subconscious mind is difficult to detect, its influence on the person is crucial.
The conscious mind can identify the authenticity of information, and the subconscious mind cannot recognize the authenticity or falsehood. It is straight, easily stimulated, receives and stores all information. It is often said that the ignorant are fearless, which inevitably means mockery. Human ignorance at one stage is forgivable, even lovely.
4. The law of mushrooms - breaking the cocoon into a butterfly.
Mushrooms are known to grow in shady corners, without access to sunlight or fertilizer, and are in a state of self-destruction, only to be noticed when they grow tall enough. This experience is like a chrysalis, a step that must be experienced before turning into a butterfly. At the beginning of your career, don't be premature. Do what "mushrooms" should do, and break through the bottleneck of "mushrooms" with wisdom.
5. What you pay attention to, what your motivation is, what will attract, what will be close to you.
I know this very well. For more than half a year, I started reading and then Xi writing. Before I knew it, I knew a lot of people who liked to read and write.
It's not so much that I was lucky enough to meet them, but that our energy attracts, and it is my heart that collides with theirs that leads to our encounter.
In Murphy's Law, people always mention that your self-confidence is wrong. If you look at it objectively, the more you are attacked by illusions, the more you can change yourself. Blind self-confidence is bad, and hallucinations will make you understand that.
In order to improve yourself, you have to recognize your reality. You can imagine you being a hero in ancient martial arts**, a little princess in a fairy tale, or the salvation of the earth. But don't bring your imagination to reality, and don't take unrealistic actions in order to make it happen.
An illusion is something that doesn't need to be feared, and the scary thing is that people are afraid to admit that it's an illusion. It's a bit of an exaggeration, but you have to be convinced that each of us is the founder of miracles and that everyday life depends on having the courage to fight. It can be hard, but trust that these aren't all hallucinations. Even if it's an illusion, I should shout out to your luck that I can achieve my dreams.
Murphy's Law, often used in the Xi of Red Shallow Studies, likewise, it also reflects the relationship between people, the relationship between people and things, is part of the Law of Attraction, Murphy's Law guides us on how to avoid mistakes in interpersonal communication, how to make the most of high emotional intelligence, feel others according to words and behaviors, influence others, and not become an independent individual.
After reading "Guiguzi", I realized that if you meet a pig, don't talk about ideals with him, because he only knows concentrate feed.
After reading the "Parchment Scroll", I realized that when the heart increases, things shrink. When the mind is open-minded, the annoyance is gone.
After reading "Wolf Road", I realized that people who are not used to seeing it, don't care, smiling is a better counterattack.
After reading "Murphy's Law", I realized that nothing is as simple as it seems, and the more you are afraid of something, the more something will happen.
After reading "The Weakness of Human Nature", I realized that there are two kinds of objects in the world that cannot be looked at directly, one is the sun and the other is the human heart.
It integrates the observation of words and feelings, the speculation of psychological state, words and deeds, and there are cases that are closely linked. After reading these five books, you will make your life take a lot less detours.
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