When it comes to the profession of "male lactation promoter", most people may laugh or shake their heads in frustration.
In fact, few husbands can tolerate an unfamiliar man inducing lactation on his wife, as if the male lactation promoter is a bad person who uses the name of lactation to take advantage of his wife.
However, when we dig deeper into the profession of male lactation promoter, we realize that it is actually a noble career choice. Male lactation promoters are usually more influential and can produce more stimulation of maternal hormones, thus effectively reducing the discomfort of many mothers.
In addition, the salary of a lactation promoter is quite generous, and Yang Jun, a handsome young man from Henan, earns 30,000 yuan a month with this position alone, which is quite profitable.
So, why did Yang Jun choose this controversial profession?How did he grow from an ordinary civil servant to a good business leader?What embarrassing events have he experienced in his career?
I dreamed of being a male lactation promoter, and I made jokes when I was training.
Yang Jun is a barber by profession, he runs a small shop by himself, and his life is worry-free and there is not much pressure in life, but he always feels that this is not a big problem.
However, in a conversation with a friend, the friend jokingly mentioned a male lactation promoter he met online, which aroused a lot of interest from Yang Jun.
My friend jokingly mentioned the evaluation of this profession by many netizens, thinking that this profession is really fantastic, not only earning a lot of income, but also bringing a lot of additional "benefits". He also jokingly mentioned Yang Jun and suggested that he try it too.
Although his friends just casually said that they wanted to make Yang Jun happy, Yang Jun did not really hear about it, but instead had a deeper understanding of the problem of milk blockage and milk engorgement of pregnant women.
Unexpectedly, the result of this query shocked Yang Jun.
In the eyes of many, a slight milk plug problem can lead to excessive breast hyperplasia and may even develop mastitis or breast cysts, which can be as hard as a stone and painful.
Surprisingly, in our country, almost 80% of mothers suffer from this disease.
Yang Jun was ecstatic, he believed that lactation promoter was indeed a profession with huge market demand and broad prospects. After much thought and struggle, he decided to devote himself to the professional training of lactation promoters.
After consulting online, Yang Jun came to a professional lactation promoter training class, but he didn't expect that as soon as he entered the class, his face was red with shame.
It turned out that the trainees who participated in the training course were either aunts, aunts, sisters, or sisters, and they couldn't see a single male creature.
Therefore, when the other aunts looked at Yang Jun who was sitting in front of them, they couldn't help laughing out loud and said jokingly:
Oh, such a handsome young man, come to learn how to promote milk. ”
After hearing these words, Yang Jun almost wanted to hide under the table, but he still used a face like a monkey's butt to pluck up the courage to say hello to the aunts.
When the practical class began, the teacher showed the students the ** model and demonstrated it, while Yang Jun listened intently, completely ignoring the eyes of the other sisters.
In desperation, this is only his first step, and he needs to develop a cheeky face.
Not long after, the teacher instructed everyone to form a team of two or two to carry out the actual operation, and in order to avoid embarrassing Yang Jun, he had to let him face the model for Xi.
Frankly speaking, Yang Jun finally got a little relief in his heart, and although he was now asked to massage his aunts, he really couldn't do it.
However, although Yang Jun did not have such a plan, those aunts understood his mind very well, and several of them even offered to become models, hoping that Yang Jun could help practice Xi.
Yang Jun had planned to calm down, but it really embarrassed him, and he was sweating profusely and his heart was racing, but he still couldn't complete the real training.
In order to relieve his psychological pressure, Yang Jun invested a lot of time to make his movements more skillful. Over time, he also gradually became proficient and obtained a diploma with outstanding performance in the graduation exams.
When he met the friend again and mentioned that he was already an excellent lactation promoter, the friend was immediately shocked and kept asking Yang Jun if he was joking.
However, Yang Jun's attitude was particularly serious, and he frankly said that this was absolutely not the case, and showed his proof, proudly declaring that he was the third male lactation promoter in China to receive the certificate.
The friend became silent, looked at Yang Jun with a hint of sympathy, and said, it may not be easy for many people to accept male lactation.
So, when Yang Jun started working, what was his actual situation?
The experience of lactation promotion is ridiculous, and people don't understand it.
Considering the large number of people contacted by the barbershop, Yang Junxin proposed to carry out some publicity activities during the haircut.
Therefore, when Yang Junshun gave a haircut to an eldest brother, he asked the eldest brother's daughter-in-law if she had given birth to a child, but he did not expect that the eldest brother's daughter-in-law was actually in confinement.
Yang Jun was overjoyed in his heart, and took advantage of the victory to pursue and ask his eldest brother and daughter-in-law if they had a problem with milk blockage, and he thought he was a professional lactation promoter.
After hearing the news, the eldest brother was so anxious that he shook his head again and again, ignoring the clippers on his head, and said in shock that it was too inappropriate for a man to promote milk.
Yang Jun showed a smile of loss and did not deny it. He asked again if he had any other mothers to introduce him, but he firmly refused. He may be thinking that if someone introduces him, he might be chased and beaten by his husband.
Yang Jun felt helpless, because the training school also communicated with many customers, and in the end, only two customers reluctantly accepted.
However, when the day came to provide door-to-door service, his hand became unusually stiff and touched directly forward, giving people a feeling that it was not like drinking milk, but more like being violent. The mother also seemed very confused, and didn't even know how to look at it.
Yang Jun was a little disappointed with his first performance, and he couldn't help but share his experience online, hoping to get more understanding and advice from expectant mothers, and also to resonate with male lactation promoters.
But when Yang Jun's story began to spread, the first thing that hit him was a harsh scolding.
Those who are called "stinky rascals", "with a very clear heart", "are lying, even if there are no men and women in front of the doctors." ”
Faced with such a situation, Yang Jun felt overwhelmed, he understood that this profession would definitely cause controversy, but his heart was still heavy until he saw the embarrassing moment of another male lactation promoter, Xiao A.
Although Xiao A has earned an annual salary of 200,000 yuan in a slightly larger city, when he recalls the first time he tried lactation, that memory is still vivid.
The woman was a doctor and did not wear tinted glasses for male breastfeeding. Little A tried several times and achieved good results, but on the third attempt, she suffered misfortune.
At that moment, the husband of the mother unexpectedly returned home, and in fact, Xiao A's figure was quite thin. Her husband had mistakenly thought that Xiao A was a woman, but when he got closer today, he realized that she was actually a man, so he immediately rushed into the kitchen to get a knife.
Xiao A said that in retrospect, he was still covered in sweat, and Yang Jun deeply resonated, realizing that he still had a longer way to go, and in addition to facing controversy from the outside world, he also needed to face the incomprehension and questioning of his parents and girlfriend.
Parents who are far away from home have a conservative view, and when they hear that their son has become a lactation promoter, they think that this is not for othersIt's really humiliating and embarrassing for them in front of family and friends.
When Yang Jun returned to his hometown, his parents kept sighing, hoping that he would continue to be a barber.
My girlfriend knew that he was giving intimate massages to other women, so she often felt jealous, leading to an unpleasant mood.
When Yang Jun heard these doubts and complaints, despite the pain in his heart, he still resolutely stated that he must do his best, whether as a barber or as a lactation promoter.
How will Yang Jun advance his career next?
Strive for the dream in your heart.
After returning, Yang Jun is planning training courses while providing services to qualified mothers.
He hopes that more people will be involved in the professional knowledge of lactation stimulation in order to help and solve problems for women who are about to give birth, and in the follow-up training course led by Yang Jun, there are dads who are willing to be humbly educated, who will carefully record every important matter, and return home to take care of their wives with milk plug problems.
Yang Jun, an aunt and sister who regards lactation promoters as their profession, uses models to carefully explain the role of each acupuncture point and how to soothe the mother's emotions. Everyone's eyes turned to him, no longer laughing, but full of respect.
The group of aunts left the training course, and many of them were warmly acclaimed and received a monthly salary of more than ten thousand.
On the Internet, Yang Jun did not pause his popular science Q&A activities, he patiently answered all kinds of questions for the mothers, and even laughed when he met funny expectant mothers.
For example, a mother asked if she could promote lactation, and Yang Jun was really stunned.
All in all, Yang Jun has made achievements in his profession as a lactation promoter, and his parents have begun to understand him.
His current wish is to help expectant mothers who are underfed or have no milk after childbirth to ensure their babies get the most nutritious milk possible.
Epilogue. Hearing the terms "male doctor in obstetrics and gynecology", "male **" or "male nanny" often finds it difficult for people to understand and accept because they have never been able to bridge the huge gap between the genders.
However, experience has taught us that men are more energetic and physically fit, and they perform quite well in all aspects of milk stimulation and caring for others.
We should not be biased about any formal and reasonable work, but should accept it with respect and equality.