The curriculum learning Xi of "Family Happiness Enterprise" is an important part of Xi'an Xuanwa Group's strategy development and team building to "help employees build happy families". In the new week, all the employees of Xuanwa Group gathered together to conduct in-depth exchanges and reviews of the Xi for more than three months.
First of all, Zhang Jiaqi, chairman of the group, took everyone to review the concept and significance of the Xi of family happiness enterprises. Family happiness enterprise Xi is a way to learn and Xi by improving the happiness awareness of employees and their family members, promoting interaction and communication between family members, enhancing family cohesion and happiness, and then improving the comprehensive ability of the enterprise.
In more than three months, we have learned Xi four chapters of courses such as "Open the Door of Happiness", "Happiness Beacon", "Happiness Hidden in Thoughts", and "Develop Good Xi Habits".
Then, each employee shared what they had learned and felt:
Through the learning Xi of the family happiness enterprise, one of my biggest gains is cognitive correction, I originally thought that the Xi habit should be achieved overnight, but after learning Xi, I know that in fact, it takes 21 days for a Xi habit to develop, and it only needs to improve a little bit every day, whether it is sports or morning learning Xi, starting from a small Xi habit, it is easier to persevere. ”
Happiness, in fact, is not a big deal, it is hidden in our cognition, hidden in our good thoughts, hidden in the bits and pieces of our lives. Starting from small things, looking back at myself, I am still the root of everything. After the cognitive level is higher, when the "big self" is stimulated, you will affect the children and partners around you, you will make yourself a family helper, the atmosphere of the whole family will rise, your sense of happiness, and your harmonious side will all be displayed. ”
The biggest gain I gained from Xi Family Happiness Business is that I have a better relationship with my parents. In the past, I was always very stubborn and quarreled with my parents, but now every time I am on the verge of a fight, when I realize that something is wrong, I immediately think of my parents' kindness to me, and now I often go shopping, walking, and chatting with them on weekends. ”
The biggest gain of this Xi is to learn to manage emotions, especially when getting along with children, now he has any problems, I will not immediately tell him that he has a problem as before, I will listen to him, after speaking, I will objectively analyze for him **right, **is wrong, he is more able to accept the mode we get along with now, so that the parent-child relationship is closer. ”
You must have a grateful thought in your heart, and look at the people and things around you with a grateful heart, and you will find that everything around you is beautiful. I used to think that my mother was verbose, but now I see more of the shining points in her, she is hardworking and careful, hard-working, never troubles her children, and keeps the house in order every day, so that we have no worries. Therefore, we must grow inward, improve our vision, cognition and pattern through continuous learning and Xi, and have a pair of eyes to discover beautiful things and constantly discover the beauty around us. ”
In this course, I have experienced the deepest boundary, through learning Xi, I will expand my boundary, see many points that I have not seen before, open up my blind spots, and accept and respect the boundaries of others more. Everyone's reaction and cognition of things is different, and his way of dealing with it will be different, there is a good saying: let flowers become flowers, let trees become trees, let others become others, and let yourself be yourself. ”
Family happiness can help enterprises, that is, the ancients said 'self-cultivation, family cooperation, governing the country, and leveling the world', and the attitude towards family members actually determines their own cultivation. When dealing with a child, we must understand his thoughts, first let him walk at his pace, and then guide him correctlyTreat your wife, be tolerant of her, and think about problems from her point of view;Treat your parents with respect for their ideas. In this process, I do my best in every little detail step by step, which is also an improvement for myself and a great help for my family. ”
Finally, Zhang Jiaqi, chairman of the group, made a summary of the review meeting: we ourselves are closely related to everything around us, from our mind, to the body to the family, society, country and even the entire earth and the universe, everything is connected, and our heart and mind determine our energy field, which is a great dimension, if you encircle yourself in a small circle, that is to limit yourself, and it becomes a "small self", this field is our entire life present, and even the future. From today onwards, we stop complaining, we actively think about things, do things, let ourselves keep the state of positive frequency all the way up, we will keep going up step by step, we will continue to climb upward, in the future, we will definitely see each other at the top.