In the morning, I get up as usual to get ready for the day's work. My husband and I argued all night because he always made a mess at home and didn't clean up the house and didn't help with household chores.
Yaping, breakfast is ready. My husband called me softly.
I slowly got up and walked into the kitchen to see my husband washing vegetables and boiling water. I was a little surprised, because my husband rarely did housework, let alone cooked breakfast.
I know I'm not good enough, but I'll try to correct it. My husband said, put down the kitchen knife in his hand, looked at me and said seriously.
I was a little moved, in fact, I just hoped that he could do some housework and pay attention to our home. I nodded and motioned for him to sit down while I cooked the meal.
Yaping, I'm sorry, I overdid it last night. My husband lowered his head and said.
I didn't mean to quarrel with you, I just felt that you didn't care too much about your family. I also let go of the knot and said calmly.
I know, I'm really going to change. I resolutely don't want you to be wronged again. My husband suddenly stood up and said with a firm face.
Looking into his eyes, I understood that he meant something. Maybe it's not an unsolvable problem between us, as long as we work hard and tolerate each other, everything will be fine.
This time it was really a reconciliation, and my husband and I re-entered the normalcy of the family and restored the harmony of the past.
Our interactions have become more harmonious, and life has returned to its former tranquility.
However, this harmony did not last long. Once, when I was working from home, my husband suddenly called** and said that he would come home later when he went out to run errands.
I typed ** and asked him **, but he was hesitant and didn't have a clear answer. This made me feel a little uneasy and a little dissatisfied.
Yaping, I really have something, I didn't mean to go home late. My husband argued.
Can you give me an accurate explanation?I asked, a little impatiently.
This ......This ......My husband's voice stammered, and I could tell that he was hesitating to tell me the truth.
I suddenly felt a sense of foreboding, and my heart felt a little cold. My husband looked at me and finally confided the truth.
Hearing his defense, although I was a little relieved, my heart was still a little sour.
I know I'm sorry for you this time, but I'm really helping a friend solve a problem. "My husband tried to calm my emotions.
I know, but you have to understand how I feel. I'm waiting at home, and I don't know what you're up to.
There was silence between us. I knew he was thinking about his friends, but I felt uncomfortable being cared for by no one at home.
With new expectations, my husband and I started working together again. He began to take the initiative to do housework, and he buried himself in hard work every day.
The atmosphere at home has become much more pleasant. Until one day, I learned a piece of news that made me quite unhappy.
I felt very angry and sad, but instead of exploding on the spot, I chose to deal with it calmly.
Husband, didn't you promise to change?Why did you start doing this again?I asked him angrily.
Yaping, you have to believe me, I didn't do anything to be sorry for you. The husband looked nervous, and said with a slightly trembling voice.
But I saw it on your phone, can you explain?I asked.
This time the argument was more intense than ever, and I felt betrayed and hurt. I left the house in a rage.
My husband's ** came from my phone, but I didn't answer it, but there was a trace of heartache in my heart.
With a glimmer of hope, I began to believe that something was starting to change in our lives. A week has passed, and the husband seems to be really trying to do the housework, often helping with cooking, washing dishes, and cleaning the room.
However, one day not long after, I noticed something at home that annoyed me. My husband invited a group of friends to the house for a party, and he didn't discuss it with me in advance.
I was a little angry, so I picked up my broom and mop and started tidying up.
How can you invite a friend into your house and make a mess without my consent?I asked angrily.
Looking at his sincere statement, the anger in my heart subsided slightly, but there was still a trace of complaint. This has happened more than once before, and I feel that my husband is sometimes too selfish.
Conflicts between us seem unavoidable, but being able to understand each other and solve problems together is perhaps the most important thing in family life.