Girls who want to go to the female race to rely on men to eat always think that the biggest difficulty is that "I have to make up my mind to rely on men to eat".
or marry, or foster, or even sell the flesh directly at the lower end.
As if moral issues are the biggest obstacle to such ideas. As long as you break through your own psychological bottom line, then everything is not a problem.
But, let's not talk about the lowest-end selling of the flesh, let's just say that the idea of wanting to marry a man depends on a man, 100% of girls will have this idea in the process of growing up, even the most independent and profitable girls, when they are tired from overtime, when the rich boy sincerely pays his favor, when the boyfriend stands in the smoky kitchen to make you a night, it is difficult not to think so.
The point is not that the wrong is good.
Even when it comes to selling the flesh, the crux of the matter is not morality.
What's the point?
It's not even about the risks and benefits, it's about your capabilities.
Sitting back and enjoying it, you definitely don't want to live the kind of "housewife" - two or three thousand a month living expenses you spend with your children and husband.
You are at least the least and also want to get 6000 discretionary money per month through marriage, and preferably, the housework is less than the average workload of a local nanny.
Naked speaking, getting married is also a job. And the one who marries you is your boss.
To cut a long story short, you can look at what the average salary of a male in China is, what is the median and what is the income level of men in your city.
In addition to the necessary expenses for the boy to eat, drink, and play, as well as his mortgage, car loan, and necessary savings, how much money he can freely dispose of each month.
This part of the free money is the money he may give to his wife.
There is also the issue of willingness to pay.
Just because he has it doesn't mean he's willing to give it to you.
You're going to have to do the math on the account.
I know that if you want to get 6,000 pocket money per month, you have to find a boy with a monthly salary of more than 20,000 yuan.
This kind of boy, if there are no major defects, is still relatively sought-after in the blind date market.
For girls with a monthly salary of 3000 to 5000 in the non-system, who graduated from non-key universities, and are not big beauties, they can still second.
So it comes down to your ability, and the ability of a girl to compete is nothing more than that.
Don't tell me you have emotional value, most of the things you can say don't.
So, all in all, you try, you go to the real search, waste all your time and energy on internal friction, it's better to really try, and you will know if it works.
Then you realize that you might as well come back to work.