Seeing many people say that their son or daughter is not married, which makes the family very anxious, I sometimes really can't figure it out, why should I be in a hurry, I am anxious about myself, and if my hair is gray, my son or daughter will get married?
It is said that children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, don't be a horse and cow for your children and grandchildren, if your son or daughter gets married, are you in a hurry when to have a child, are you in a hurry when you have a child, when will these children and grandchildren get married...The question is, do people in a hurry have that long lives?
Take care of yourself first, your own health is good, and when you raise your children, your task will be completed, and as for whether you get married or not, they will grow up by themselves, don't you understand this truth?
What's more, now is a new era, in the 23rd century, how many people are unmarried and inconferential, there are so many singles, and there are many single women, so do these parents have to be in a hurry, put their minds at ease, go with them (her), think about it, naturally what they should do and what they should do!
I had a colleague before, her daughter got married at the age of 21, not long after the marriage, her mother wanted her to get pregnant and have a child, but the matter was willing, she couldn't get pregnant, either to the hospital or on the way to the hospital, to do examinations, and finally artificial insemination, but the artificial insemination was still unsuccessful, the colleague's daughter saw it, didn't go to the hospital, let it go, there is, there is no, there is no, it has been two or three years to go to the hospital, and the colleague's daughter is also guilty.
I didn't expect to be pregnant when she was twenty-four years old, or naturally pregnant, magical, in fact, my colleague's daughter was not pregnant at that time, her son-in-law's grandfather told my colleague's daughter to tell the fate, said that there would be no child until the age of twenty-four, and it was really like this, when my colleague said this, he also said that he knew this, and he would not toss it in those years, the money was spent again, and his daughter suffered again, and she was naturally pregnant and gave birth to a big fat boy, and she was really happy!
Therefore, there is time to have children and get married, as a parent who interferes too much in the private life of the children, it will only make the children more disgusted with their parents and even make the children suffer!
One of my relatives is that her daughter is 32 years old and not married yet, and her mother asked her to find a boyfriend or something as soon as she spoke, so that her daughter didn't come home for the Chinese New Year last year!
Originally, the home is warm, whether the child is married or not, as a parent to give the child a warm backer, when the appropriate time can be mentioned, if the child does not have such thoughts, do not mention, as long as their children are filial to themselves, why should others increase pressure on the child?
When to get married, when to have children, it is all predestined, don't think about it, worry so much, live your own life, children are good to themselves, better than anything, as an adult is anxious and in vain, why bother?It's better to let God arrange it!
Do you think that's the case?