Xu Gehui is pregnant, I must be responsible for her, we should get a divorce.
In 2004, Ding Jian said this to his wife Xiao Hua, who had just come out of confinement.
Xiao Hua looked at her husband with an incredulous expression, and said with a choked throat: "Then what should our children do?"”
The ten-year-old eldest daughter and the five-month-old youngest son both need their father's company, but Ding Jian filed for divorce because of his lover.
Xiao Hua finally couldn't resist and agreed to divorce Ding Jian, and received a compensation of 100 million yuan.
After Ding Jian's divorce, he and "Little Three" Xu Gehui held a wedding in South Africa.
Are Ding Jian and Xu Gehui's current living conditions happy?What is Xiao Hua's life like?
Ding Jian, a pure Beijinger, has excelled in his studies since he was a child and has always been the leader of his class.
He passed the college entrance examination and was admitted to the Department of Chemistry of Peking University, and after graduating from Peking University, he went to the University of California for further study.
The United States is Ding Jian's place of study, and Xiao Hua graduated from Peking University and came to the University of California to study.
Ding Jian heard that a school girl came to the same school, and he was very happy, and took the initiative to receive her.
Ding Jian fell in love with Xiao Hua at first sight, because she was not only beautiful, but also had excellent academic performance.
Always using his identity as a student of Peking University as an excuse, Ding Jian often talked with Xiao Hua and had dinner together.
Ding Jian actively helped Xiao Hua solve his academic problems and did his best.
Xiao Hua gradually developed a good impression of Ding Jian, a gentle and considerate senior, because he took care of her so intimately every day.
The two soon became boyfriend and girlfriend, and a deep emotional bond developed between them.
The two lived and studied together at school, time flew by, and Ding Jian ushered in graduation after a while.
At that time, at the time of the Internet boom in the United States, Ding Jian and several international students seized the opportunity to co-found "AsiaInfo".
For the sake of Ding Jian, Xiao Hua was even willing to stay in the United States to accompany him.
AsiaInfo is thriving and has become the first Chinese technology company in the United States.
The company's future is bright, but Ding Jian has always been concerned about returning to China for development.
After learning about her husband's thoughts, Xiao Hua actively supported him to return to China for development.
In order to reassure her husband, Xiao Hua took the initiative to give up her high-paying job in the United States and decided to accompany her husband back to China.
Ding Jian quickly established AsiaInfo (China) Company in China and returned to his homeland.
At that time, the Internet in China was in the popularization stage, and there were a large number of vacancies in the market.
Ding Jian encountered difficulties when he first founded the company, and due to the lack of employees, Xiao Hua joined the company and ran the company together with Ding Jian.
They are busy taking orders and learning computer skills, and they have a great time every day.
Under their leadership, AsiaInfo (China)'s customer orders have been increasing, and the company's development has become increasingly vigorous.
During the entrepreneurial period, Xiao Hua also welcomed a daughter of Ding Jian.
Ding Jian affectionately hugged the baby in his arms, looked at his wife Xiao Hua gratefully, and swore: "I will cherish you forever!".”
AsiaInfo (China) was successfully listed in China in less than five years.
The company's development is becoming more and more stable, and Xiao Hua has also achieved his career goals, choosing to withdraw from the stage and return to his family, so that the family can enjoy a happy life.
After Ding Jian met Xu Gehui, the originally happy family underwent earth-shaking changes.
Ding Jian fell in love with Xu Gehui at first sight, because of how attractive she was?
Xu Gehui was born in Beijing in 1968.
Her father was an actress, while her mother served as a literary soldier in the army and was one of the first veterans of the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea.
Under the influence of his family, Xu Gehui has had a soft spot for singing and dancing since he was a child.
Xu Gehui also excelled in his studies and has been at the top of his class since elementary school.
In the second grade of primary school, Xu Gehui was successfully admitted to the primary school and middle school affiliated to Beijing University of Foreign Chinese.
Because of his excellent academic performance, Xu Gehui obtained the qualification to be sent to the High School Affiliated to Beijing Foreign University.
After entering high school, there were many top students in the class, and Xu Gehui's grades plummeted.
Despite this, Xu Gehui did not give up, but studied hard in his spare time, and finally succeeded in catching up with his classmates with excellent grades.
With a lot of effort, even a steel pestle can be sharpened into a needle.
Xu Gehui studied diligently, and finally ranked among the top ten in his grade, and his grades gradually stabilized.
Xu Gehui was successfully admitted to the English Department of Beijing University of Foreign Chinese and became a third-year graduate.
During his time at school, Xu Gehui accidentally participated in the host competition held by CCTV, which can be described as a coincidence.
Xu Gehui just had the idea of trying it casually at first, and he didn't expect to win the award.
Xu Gehui has been trained by her family's artistic performance since she was a child, and she stood on the stage to look calm and confident, won the unanimous praise of the judges, and won the overall championship of the competition.
After the game, CCTV extended an olive branch to her to join the company, and she signed the contract without hesitation.
As soon as Xu Gehui stepped into CCTV, the leaders began to pay attention to this "champion".
Because of his steadfastness and hard work, he got along well with his colleagues, and quickly won the recognition of his leaders.
She hosted the "Studio Twelve" program, although the scale of this program is not large, but the outstanding Xu Gehui won the love of the audience.
Xu Gehui has hosted programs such as "East, West, South, North and Central" and "Zhengda Variety Show".
In 1995, the hosts of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala included Xu Gehui, Ni Ping and Zhao Zhongxiang.
Xu Gehui ushered in her climactic moment of hosting on the stage of CCTV Spring Festival Gala.
Subsequently, she successively presided over important special evenings such as the 35th anniversary celebration of ** TV station, the China ** awards party, and the opening ceremony of the China International Choral Festival.
In 1995, Xu Gehui won the honor of "Top Ten Program Hosts of the Chinese Language Award".
CCTV strongly supported Xu Gehui, making people even more convinced that she was the candidate trained by CCTV to replace Ni Ping.
No one expected that Xu Gehui suddenly decided to quit CCTV after winning the award.
The situation has sparked speculation, and various rumors about Xu Gehui have spread.
There is a statement that is widely recognized, that is, Xu Gehui was poached by Phoenix Satellite TV**, and Phoenix Satellite TV promised that she would host their top variety show "Gathering on Phoenix Channel" and gave her a generous reward.
She did participate in the special programs of Phoenix Channel: the report of the Hong Kong handover party, and the live broadcast of Princess Diana's funeral.
Since 2000, Xu Gehui has hosted talk shows such as "Public Welfare China".
The hosting career is thriving, and a series of host awards are emerging one after another.
Xu Gehui's career was smooth sailing, until he met the "billionaire" Ding Jian, and since then he has been in a slump.
What happened between them?Is there anything new that has emerged?
Once, Xu Gehui presided over a business meeting and got acquainted with Ding Jian.
The two didn't have much contact in the conference arena and only left a shallow impression on each other.
After the meeting, all participants were invited to join the skiing event.
On the ski slopes, Ding Jian was ridiculed by other skiers for not being good at skiing.
Xu Gehui took the initiative to stand up and help Ding Jianzheng resolve the embarrassment, so that he was no longer embarrassed and speechless.
Ding Jian would often invite Xu Gehui to chat and eat privately after the incident.
After all, Xu Gehui needs to consider that Ding Jian already has a wife, so she keeps a certain distance from him.
Ding Jian kept sending small surprises and gifts to Xu Gehui, hoping to win her heart.
Ding Jian is gentle and considerate, full of love, and Xu Gehui is still attracted to him despite knowing that he already has a family.
Xu Gehui was moved, and said directly to Ding Jian: "After all, you are already a family person, so let's not contact each other in the future." ”
After Xu Gehui finished speaking, he cut off contact with Ding Jian.
Ding Jian has fallen deeply in love, and he can no longer give up this relationship. He said to Xu Gehui many times: "I will divorce Xiao Hua." ”
Since then, Xu Gehui and Ding Jian have started a secret romance that lasted for a year.
Xiao Hua lived a leisurely and happy life outside, but at this time he was pregnant with a child and concentrated on taking care of Ding Jian's family.
Xu Gehui was unexpectedly pregnant, just as Xiao Hua was looking forward to the arrival of the newborn.
In order to ensure that the child in Xu Gehui's belly could be born openly, Ding Jian showed more love for her than Xiao Hua.
Ding Jian took the initiative to confess to Xiao Hua, ignoring her just out of confinement.
Xu Gehui has touched my heart, and now that she is pregnant with a child, I am determined to build a happy family for her.
She looked at her husband in disbelief and asked, "So what should we do with our children?".”
Ding Jian said lightly: "The child can be raised by you, if you don't want to, I will raise it." ”
Ding Jian has made up his mind to divorce, and Xiao Hua also understands that his heart has already left, and it is meaningless to forcibly keep him.
Xiao Hua agreed to the divorce on the condition that she would receive custody of her two children.
Out of guilt, Ding Jian took the initiative to pay Xiao Hua a "breakup fee" of 100 million.
Xiao Hua's heart was like ashes, and after the divorce, he flew to the United States with his two children to start a new life.
Ding Jian and Xu Gehui, who had just divorced not long ago, held a grand wedding in South Africa.
Ding Jian and Hui Gehui went in pairs to various public places, and everything was properly arranged.
One was once named the "first sister" of Phoenix Satellite TV, and the other is a highly regarded entrepreneur with extremely high commercial value.
Their love attracted a lot of attention and naturally became the center of attention.
Xu Gehui broke up other people's families because he knew that three should be three, and he also became the target of everyone's verbal criticism.
Ding Jian cared about his wife and couldn't tolerate her being humiliated like this, so he spontaneously stood up to clarify for his beloved wife.
When I was with Xu Gehui, I was already single, so my divorce from my ex-wife had nothing to do with Xu Gehui.
Soon after, Ding Jian's wife, Xu Gehui, gave birth to a daughter.
Xu Gehui quickly returned to work as soon as he **.
The reporter asked Xu Gehui again at an event: "Have you really been a junior?"”
Whenever a reporter asks a straightforward question, Xu Gehui always chooses to remain silent and resolutely refuses to answer such questions.
Her silence made many people suspect that she was out of weakness, which further confirmed her identity as a "little three" and a "meddler".
Xu Gehui's career also declined, and his reputation suffered.
Phoenix TV no longer fully supports her as much as it used to.
In 2005, Xu Gehui and Ding Jian jointly funded the establishment of a Hope Primary School in Zhumadian, Henan Province.
They named the school "Jian Hui" Primary School to commemorate the deep affection between the two.
Xiao Hua settled abroad with her two children, and after a long time, she decided to forgive the past.
During Ding Jian's illness, he even deliberately brought his twin children back to China to visit him.
Under Xiao Hua's persuasion, one of his sons and daughters also forgave their father and began to call him "Dad".
Ding Jian was lying on the hospital bed, Xiao Hua didn't care about the previous differences, shook hands with Xu Gehui to reconcile, and they took care of Ding Jian together.
Xiao Hua is undoubtedly the most unfortunate party in this three-person relationship.
In Ding Jian's most difficult moment, Xiao Hua has been silently shielding him from the wind and rain.
Ding Jian is now successful in his career and has become a rich man, while Xiao Hua has become the first woman to be abandoned.
Xu Gehui took the opportunity to replace him and took away the happiness that originally belonged to Xiao Hua.
The luck of his life is to be able to meet these two wonderful women.