The man spent 4,000 yuan to buy a mobile phone and was questioned, the woman I m 25 years old, do yo

There is a popular saying among girls: "I don't need to work hard, I'm going to find a boy to marry and let him carry it." And the boys are not stupid, they understand that as long as they don't buy a house, get married, or raise children, they can live an easy and happy life.

For example, if they are required to buy a house and a car, they must at least have a house, otherwise they may choose to break up and find a boy who has a house to marry.

Event Recap:

In a rental house in Shaanxi, the girl checked her boyfriend's mobile phone and found that his bank card had been deducted 4,000 yuan.

The girl stared at her boyfriend and asked curiously, "Why are you spending so much money all of a sudden?"There was surprise and confusion in his voice.

The boy replied frankly: "The old phone can't play games, so I bought a new one, my own phone CPU can't work, I can't play games, this new phone can play games." ”

However, the girl exploded in an instant.

One day, you know how to play games, don't you get motivated, don't you work hard?Aren't we going to save up to buy a house and build the future together?The girl's voice grew sharper and sharper, pricking the boy's eardrums.

"How can we get married if we don't have a house?”

Can't I take a break and relax after work?"

The boy tried to explain the current property market situation, but the girl did not flinch, and asked more aggressively: "Does your family have any plans to buy a house?"In the silence, her words were clear and resolute.

Even if you don't marry me, you have to buy it. ”

The boy smiled wryly and revealed the truth in his heart: "Actually, I have no plans to buy a house, and renting a house is not bad." ”

The girl's emotions surged like a flood: "I'm 25 years old!."If I don't even have a house, I won't stay, no matter what others say. Her words almost ended the relationship.

The boy retorted, "You always ask for too much, we don't need a house to get married." His attitude was firm, as if he had seen through society's constraints on marriage.

The girl's sharp words rang in the boy's ears: "You did it on purpose!".Without a house, how could I continue with you?When the time comes, I'd rather go on a blind date and find someone with a house and a car. ”

When it came to breaking up, the man didn't panic at all, and accused the girl not to be so "do", but he still didn't feel that he had to buy a house if he got married, and he was not in a hurry to get married.

Netizen comments:

Some criticized the girl for being too harsh, and some sympathized with her helplessness.

She experienced emotional loss, failure in graduate school entrance examinations, and depression, however, in the face of reality, her persistence seemed insignificant.

If you don't work hard yourself, why should you ask others?One netizen questioned the focus.

The boy retorted: "I used my own money to buy a mobile phone, do I need to report it to anyone?".”

Take a look at the resume of this young lady in recent years:

It's rich, but nothing is done.

As the saying goes, "Life is not only about what is in front of you, but also about poetry and distant places." "However, reality is often presented in a cold manner. Girls may have the right to seek stability, and boys may have reasons to seek freedom.

However, on the balance between love and materiality, it seems difficult to strike a perfect balance between the two.

Regardless of the outcome, this contest between the concept of love and the concept of marriage not only reflects the confusion and helplessness of young people in the social context of the present, but also causes us to think deeply: in the vast world of love, how should we choose.

Netizen A: Girls are too demanding, after all, the house has become a pressure and burden for modern people, and boys also have the right to pursue freedom.

Netizen B: I can understand the girl's helplessness, after all, we live in a materialistic society, and the house has become a hard indicator of marriage. But should she look at it from a different angle?

Netizen C: This is the reality, the contradiction between love and material will always exist. We need to find a balance between pursuing the purity of our feelings without ignoring the pressures of reality.

The old horse has something to say:

I feel that this is a little difficult for this boy, he has just entered the society, and the economy may still need the support of his parents, and the girl is under so much pressure, shouldn't a good life come out of the common struggle?

It's not something that can be achieved by one party "waiting, relying on, and asking", if you get it like this, it shows that you are dispensable to him.