If you love, please love deeply, if you don't love, please don't hurt, this sentence in the emotional world, can be described as an eternal truth, in the final analysis, good together, good to disperse, don't hurt each other.
However, not all couples can do a little, and many people want both and want, and in the end, they get nothing but scarred, which is a pity.
For example, this young and beautiful flight attendant, who originally had a great prospect, but because she was unclear in her relationship, she overturned, and she herself became famous because of this, and everyone shouted and beat her.
Mr. Shen and Ms. Zhuang are a couple, but when the two first met, the 34-year-old Mr. Shen had a family, he was ten years older than Ms. Zhuang, and he was still the father of three children, but Ms. Zhuang didn't mind this and still got together with Mr. Shen.
Mr. Shen identified Ms. Zhuang as his true love, and he was very generous, and he spent nearly one million yuan in love for only one year, in order to stay with Ms. Zhuang for a long time, Mr. Shen finally divorced his original wife, and talked to Ms. Zhuang about marriage.
But at this time, Ms. Zhuang gradually showed her feet, Mr. Shen found that Ms. Zhuang had a WeChat account, and there was a man on the trumpet who called Ms. Zhuang a "little wild cat", and one day, when Mr. Shen was with Ms. Zhuang, he heard a man's voice on Ms. Zhuang's side, and so on, but in the end, Ms. Zhuang, who was able to speak well, rounded things up, and the careless Mr. Shen obeyed his words and did not think much about it.
Until one time, Mr. Shen wanted to surprise Ms. Zhuang, but in Ms. Zhuang's home, he found that there were a lot of hairs, the two toothbrushes were in a used state, and the scene was messy, which made Mr. Shen suspicious.
Later, Ms. Zhuang's mother also intervened in the matter, and Mr. Shen finally decided to forgive Ms. Zhuang and sat down to discuss the marriage, but at this moment, Ms. Zhuang's family actually regretted the marriage, which made Mr. Shen very hurt and learned from the pain, Mr. Shen decided to join his ex-wife to sue Ms. Zhuang to recover his financial losses, and at the same time, he posted the relationship experience of the two and Ms. Zhuang's ** on the Internet, which caused an uproar.
For Ms. Zhuang's behavior, I personally feel very sorry, to put it bluntly, she doesn't want to give up Mr. Shen's good to her, but she is greedy for the happiness of doing whatever she wants, people who want everything, are destined to get nothing, after this incident, Ms. Zhuang is famous in the industry, and the follow-up development is bound to be greatly affected, which is not a small price.
And about loyalty, many times, there is really only a difference between zero times and countless times, when Mr. Shen found out that she was tired, he did not investigate it for the first time, but let it go and continue to pay for himself, which eventually led to an uncontrollable situation.
This also reminds people that everything should not be careless, and the details should be seen in character, rather than blindly moving forward.
In economics, there is a concept called sunk cost, generally speaking, the higher the sunk cost, the less the person wants to give up, because once you give up, it means that all the previous efforts are in vain, and there is no return.
Because of this, many people are reluctant to give up, even though they know that it is a mistake to stick with it, because no one wants to face a situation where a lot of effort is not rewarded.
But I personally think that in addition to considering the sunk cost, you should also consider the timely stop loss, the direction is always more important than the effort, the direction is wrong, from the moment you give up, you start to earn!
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