Hello everyone, I am Xiaomeng, in today's society, it is necessary to know people, faces, faces, and hearts, and learn some skills Xi people, and you can start with these three tricks.
The first is to observe from the subtleties See the cognition from the subtleties Inadvertently small Xi habits come from the subconscious may expose the most true thoughts in the heart Sometimes the actions that the speaker himself does not care about are the outpouring of his most true thoughts in his heart, if you want to truly understand a person's heart, you must learn to pay attention to observe and be good at capturing the most real Xi habits of others. A person's personality and cultivation can also be seen in certain unconscious behaviors, such as mantras. Some people become polite or understanding for the sake of purpose, but behind the scenes, they are actually rude and dirty, and even arrogant, and we used to have a colleague in our company who treated his superiors only obediently, amiably, and treated his subordinates or colleagues very differently, and the key is to ignore them, so he is a hypocrite, and these behaviors can see the true side of a person, which is also a clever way to expose his personality When people are faced with people who come into contact for the first time, they tend to behave very kindly and perfectly, so observing the people around them from a subtle point of view and listening to the comments of others is also an important way to help us judge their true situation. If you can do a good job in the subtleties, such a character will not be bad.
Second, from the observation of alcohol The so-called wine is like character There are many people who will use wine to strengthen their courage and spit out the truth after drinking Some people usually restrain themselves before letting down their guard after drinking, alcohol has the effect of paralyzing the brain, so when someone is drunk, the consciousness will lose control. When a person is drunk, his consciousness will lose control, his unconscious will begin to activate, and the true side hidden in the depths of his heart will be revealed nakedly. The words and deeds of people after drinking often reflect the deep-seated nature of their humanity and life more than usual. Some people are in two completely different states before they drink and after they get drunk, and then you need to carefully observe whether it is worth deep friendship, for example, some people usually do a good job of keeping their work secret, but once they get drunk, they talk a lot, and they talk a lot of secrets, then such people may not be able to have deep friendships, and this kind of person is not very popular in social and social situations, and they are not very trustworthy. On the other hand, if a person is able to maintain self-control even after being drunk, or is more cautious and self-respecting, it indicates that his willpower and self-control are relatively strong. The wine table is a small stage of life, reflecting the character, first into the wine, and then approaching the person, so from the drunken observation can see the real state of a person's unconscious. After all, such a side must also learn to prevent.
Third, Observing from the Perspective of Interests and Seeing People's Hearts with Interests "The world is bustling, and all are for profit;The world is crowded, all for profit. "Profit-seeking is human instinct. Chasing interests is understandable, but there must be a bottom line In life, there are often people who only do things and forget to be a man, especially in the face of interests, forgetting human nature and not being able to be self. Bad character is self-evident. This is a villain, and it is not possible to make friends. Some people say kindness every day when they don't encounter interests, and often package themselves as a person who values feelings. However, once there is a conflict of interests, they will only consider their own interests, and will not consider the difficulties of the other party at all. Therefore, when interests are involved, a person's true heart will be revealed. Interests are issues that we cannot avoid, especially when interacting and cooperating with others. Whether a person still sticks to his principles in the face of interests and whether he can uphold the right path without losing his sobriety shows how noble his heart is. Benefits include money, territory, official position, status, and so on. Striving for interests is human nature, and there should be no blame. Because of this, in the face of interests, a person's character is fully revealed. Character is hidden in people's every move. Good character will not be buried;Bad character can't be hidden.
If you want to look at people without looking away, you must keep these three tricks in mind: first, from subtle observation, second, from drunken observation, and third, from the observation of interests.
I think the above three tricks do make sense You can like and pay attention If it can help you Remember to like and collect and give your important relatives and friends around you Tell them the subtleties to see the cognition of the character after drinking See the people's hearts in front of the interests of the people to polish their eyes and learn these three tricks They will definitely thank you for sharing their love They will definitely thank you for sharing your love In the end, I want to trouble you to move your golden finger, long press and like to encourage my creation, thank you for your attention and support See you next time.