Everyone treats the loss of their loved ones differently. Some people will cry so hard that they will cry until they faint at every memory or interaction.
An old man crossing the street on crutches can cause you hysteria and remind you of the old man in your family. In that moment, countless memories surfaced, but time could never be returned.
Life goes on, and everyone chooses a different way. Some people choose to give up on themselves, using indulgence, alcohol, and reckless behavior to numb the pain. Some people deal with it completely through the conventional way and even take a little medicine. Each of us has a different approach, and the time to recover is naturally different. 
When a loved one leaves, no one can remain indifferent, because this kind of departure is the future days when there is no other person. Everything is left only with memories, and only the living are left to remember and remember.
Even if this is a relief for loved ones, it will still be reluctant and sad in the end. However, at this time, we don't think about things objectively, so we often take care of everything and feel that everything is our own fault.
In the initial stages of our grief, all we can think of is pain and sorrow. We don't even think we'll learn anything from losing someone and grow.
I'm beginning to realize that there are things we can learn from grief. We accept our emotions and vent them in a reasonable way, and life will slowly improve over time.
There is no shame in grieving the death of a loved one. Although the life that has to go on will make us breathless, these emotions are also a sweet burden. Emotions will let you know that you are still alive and will remind you that you need to work hard in the days ahead, whether it is work or life.
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