Rockefeller admonished:
Don't talk if you have nothing to do, there are only three purposes for speaking
1. If you talk about making others happy, if your words are not happy for others, then don't talk about it;
2. It is said that others are energetic and can deliver value to others;
3. You have to make money, otherwise you have to keep your breath, warm your stomach, don't talk nonsense. ”
That's right. Our ancestors also said that more words are better than fewer words, and less words are better than words.
When people live, illness enters from the mouth, and misfortune comes out of the mouth, and countless lessons of blood and tears have proved this.
Even if you think you're right, don't be a good teacher.
For the wise do not need it;And the confused people can't listen.
In fact, as long as there is no conflict of interests, there is generally no need to refute what others say.
After all, everyone has their own position, experience, and level of cognition, and you can assert yourself, but you can't ask others to agree, can you?
If what you say can't convey value, make the other party unhappy, and don't help make money in the slightest, then it's better not to talk about it.
After all, when you are not on the same level of cognition as the other person, no matter what you say, the other person will feel wrong, and it will be annoying to say too much.
* The way to either take class or be fooled;The improvement of the cognitive level is either to be educated or to be taught.
Who is tired of listening to the incessant preaching?
In this world, good medicine is bitter, loyalty is against the ear, the truth is thorny, and the truth is poisonous.
Human nature longs to be understood, comforted, and affirmed, but does not like to be challenged, denied, or doubted.
So the world of adults can only be screened, there is no need to preach, either understand or stay away.
Which adult, not in the beating of life, because of the fast mouth, and suffered a loss, because of the mouth, and caused trouble, only began to learn to observe words and looks, not to be quiet, and to begin to understand that silence is golden?
In this world, everyone is willing to listen to good and obedient words, even if sometimes they know that it may not be the truth.
Therefore, people who understand that people, people with high emotional intelligence, never say unpleasant things, because human nature does not like to hear the truth.
In fact, people with brains never chatter and annoy people.
They understand the truth that the water is deep and the water is silent, and the person is steady.
If you can't say something clearly, you won't say it;There are some things that involve others, and it is needless to say.
After all, if you say too much, you will lose too much.
Writer Drucker has a very profound saying: Doing the right thing is more important than doing it right.
Therefore, don't think you're right, just talk endlessly, and learn to be a warm and wise person.
Respect everyone's cause and effect and limitations, some people, just see clearly, some things, don't need to go deeper.
Ten thousand words, it is better to be silent, a lot of trouble, is the trouble caused by too many words.
Words can be a brick to knock on the door, but sometimes, not being able to speak, talking too much, is also a source of trouble.
Therefore, when dealing with people, it is good to be calm and gentle, restrain your desire to express, do not feel inferior and don't show off, and don't talk endlessly.
Seriously, although it is human instinct to speak, prudence is our lifelong practice.
For a lifetime, if you want less right and wrong, less trouble, you must remember, don't talk too much, too much will fail, don't do too much, and do too much trouble.
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