Author: Listen to the wind.
01, opening.
A cartoonist Zheng Xinyao once said: "When the road is finished, it does not mean that we have reached the end of the road, but reminds us that it is time to turn a corner." "Life is a journey of continuous problem solving. The stronger your problem-solving skills, the more you gain and the better your life becomes. However, there will always be various bottlenecks in life, sometimes trying to break through, finding that the goal is close at hand, and sometimes it seems out of reach. Learning to "turn" as part of life's fulfillment is an asset.
02. Wrong direction, wasted effort.
In life, some people struggle in the right direction and gradually move towards success. Others, on the other hand, have been stuck in the wrong direction, wasting time and losing confidence in themselves. The strong know how to turn when necessary. Mo Lan in the TV series "Know" is an example. Taught by her mother, she mistakenly thought that her appearance and weakness were enough to capture a man's heart. However, such a marriage was full of calculations and lacked sincerity, which ultimately made her unhappy. If Mo Lan can change her thinking, follow her grandmother's advice, and learn Xi ability to govern the family, she may be able to win her husband's respect like Minglan did. Choose the path that suits you, and if you are at an impasse, you need to enlarge the pattern of your mind.
03. Turn and try a new direction.
Halfway through life, if you dare to break your comfort zone and find a new direction, you will be surprised by your self-exploration. If you want to survive as a Jedi, you don't have to stumble all the way, you can change your mindset and try new ways of working hard. When faced with difficulties, people with the mindset of a wealthy man will find their way through the turns. After Qiu Yingying lost her job in the TV series "Ode to Joy", she changed her direction to engage in coffee sales, and finally realized her self-worth through online sales. Life is changing, so be flexible, and if one path doesn't work, try to change direction, and you may find new opportunities.
04. Turn around and find a new ending.
The Book of Changes says: "Bend into all things and leave nothing behind." "Really powerful people know how to protect themselves when they are vulnerable, not to be tough, but to make clever detours. Knowing how to turn is a pattern and a way to find a new way out. There is no need to be depressed to fail, there are thousands of choices on the road of life. When encountering a problem, think of multiple solutions to make your thinking more flexible. Every time you are cornered, you can stimulate your potential and make decisions that are more suitable for you. Survive the most difficult moments, you will find that the road is under your feet, turn a corner, and create a more wonderful life.
05. Message.
Festingberg once said, "10% of what happens in life is made up of our own events, and the rest is made up of our attitudes and behaviors after the fact." "Learning to turn is a rich man's mindset. When faced with problems, skillfully maneuver around corners to protect yourself from injury. Life is full of uncertainties, but if you can face it positively and be flexible, you will find that there is more than one solution. Turning is not an admission of defeat, but a wise choice, to protect yourself and avoid more trauma. Overcome the dilemma, find the right direction, and the future will be smoother.