When we met that person, we thought we would love him for the rest of our lives, he was already so good, how could I fall in love with someone else?However, the years will let you know that a lifelong wish is really just a wish.
When I first met, I was very impressed with him. His gentle and considerate demeanor made me feel extremely happy, as if in his arms, all worries could be dissipated. The daily relationship with me gradually plunged me into the whirlpool of love, and I firmly believed that I could love him forever.
However, time flies, and time flies. As time went on, our relationship faded flat. His gentleness and thoughtfulness were no longer as frequent as they used to be, and we began to be suspicious and resentful of each other's shortcomings. Gradually, we began to quarrel and cold war, hurting each other.
In the process, I began to wonder if I could really love him for the rest of my lifeIs he my "man"?Perhaps, love is not as I think, it only needs one choice to remain pure and perfect forever. Love requires effort and maintenance, and it needs to be managed and guarded by both parties.
Gradually, I started to have a crush on other people. They gave me a different kind of care and warmth, and made me feel that I could regain my happiness. I realized that love is not the only one, and it is possible for everyone to meet the one who is more suitable for them. Perhaps, "that person" is just one of our wishes as a human being, not the only choice we are destined to make.
When I let go of my attachment and stubbornness to him, I began to accept myself and other possible loves in this world. Nowadays, I no longer pursue the fantasy of loving only one person for the rest of my life, but try to find someone who can truly be loved and loved. I still miss that relationship in the past, but I have come to understand that there will be many different choices on the road of life, and each choice may bring us new happiness.
So, don't limit your happiness for the sake of a heart's desire. Learn to let go, learn to accept, and believe that the years will make you understand that true happiness does not exist only in a person or a relationship, but in the interweaving of countless possibilities. As long as we keep looking, we all have the opportunity to meet the person who truly belongs to us and walk through the happy times that belong to us together.