My cousin's niece fell in love in her junior year of high school, and my cousin-in-law strongly objected, and the head teacher also talked to the two children, which ended in failure. Watching his niece's grades rise and fall, the cousin and his wife dare not speak out, and they are afraid that the child will be even more rebellious, so if they don't say it, they are as anxious as ants on a hot pot. Fortunately, my niece performed exceptionally well in the college entrance examination and was admitted to an unexpected university, which is far from the university that the boy was admitted to. Although the distance did not break their love, the cousin and his wife were not worried, knowing that the more they objected, the stronger their hearts were.
Today, my cousin and my family came to see my mother, and my cousin said happily, "My niece and boy broke up, and my niece brought it up." said that he should have broken up with him a long time ago, and after talking for more than two years, she has always paid more, and the boy always hopes that she can't be better than him in all aspects, and feels that the boy is too selfish and doesn't love her so much. The niece was glad that she held the defense of her body and did not deviate. I said, "That's really good, stop the loss in time." The cousin-in-law smiled and said, "No, Xiaoli said that now that she thinks about it, she feels that her original willfulness was too stupid." After talking for more than two years, the boy just used her as a spare tire, only sweet talk, never took action, went out to eat mostly paid for the niece, and gave the niece some hand cream, keychains and small plush toy pendants hanging on the schoolbag for a few yuan, but the niece used the living expenses saved by thrift to buy him more than 100 gifts. In college, my niece participated in competitions and won various awards, and boys always poured cold water on my niece, saying that girls are too good and not good. ”
Early love in high school is indeed a headache for parents, but some things are unavoidable on the road of children's life, and sometimes they must be experienced, often the forcible stopping of parents will be counterproductive, we just need to tell children what can be done, what can not be done, we must protect ourselves. Positive early love allows two children to encourage each other, make progress together, and get into the ideal university together, and maybe everything is the best arrangement.