The two houses demolished, my mother-in-law gave them to my sister-in-law, but in the end, I was the winner
My family really couldn't come up with the money, and the hospital was still urging me to pay the fee, so my mother-in-law shouted to a few workers: "Hurry up, pull people to the construction site!".Isn't the hospital going to stop taking the drug?”
The stepmother, with her hair in a mess, walked up to my mother-in-law angrily: "Why are you like this?".Your son-in-law is lying in the hospital, at least your family. It's time to save your life!30,000 yuan, don't you borrow a penny?”
I felt dizzy and watched my mother-in-law and stepmother arguing violently in the payment hall. My father had just come out of the operating room and was admitted to the ICU, and he still hasn't woken up.
My stepmother was lying on the back of the chair wiping her tears, and when she saw that I didn't say a word, she suddenly shouted at my mother-in-law: "You people are really in the nest, you know how to shirk responsibility." Looking for a developer, looking for a contractor, there has to be a way!”
My mother-in-law gave her a disdainful look, snatched my phone, pointed at my stepmother and a group of co-workers, and said angrily, "You will be so good-mouthed, go and find it, it will always be solved!".”
The stepmother responded to her mother-in-law with red eyes and a sneer: "I can't contact anyone now, what are you talking about?."What about having money?You guys don't have a human touch at all!Then she turned to me again: "Other people's daughters are living a happy life, but your father is still working the construction site at such an old age." You're not blessed at all. ”
My mother-in-law couldn't help but give her a few blank eyes, and pulled me to go home, saying that I was pregnant with a child, so I couldn't mess around, and I should go home and rest.
Not to be outdone, I broke away from my mother-in-law's hand and yelled at her, "I don't care, I don't care!".I don't believe we can do anything about it. As she spoke, tears flowed uncontrollably.
My mother-in-law was trembling with anger, pointed at me and shouted: "You know how to resist, okay, I'll call Du Jun over and let him deal with your family's affairs." With that, she left in a rage.
My name is Li Xiaoying, and my parents have long been divorced. They each started a new family, and I grew up with my grandmother. During the winter and summer vacations, I would go to my parents' house for a while. After my grandmother died, I became a person with two families who always felt like an outsider.
I've been dating Du Jun for five years, but his mother has never accepted me. In order not to make Du Jun difficult to behave, I proposed to break up. Unexpectedly, her mother actually came to me and said that she didn't like the complicated environment of my family, but her son liked me, so she now agreed to our marriage, and promised to give us a wedding house, but on the condition that the property was notarized before marriage.
After listening to her words, I felt that her thinking was very peculiar. Now that the divorce rate is high, according to her, it seems that none of us need to enter the palace of marriage.
However, Du Jun is really good to me, and I really can't bear this relationship. In order to prove that I was not for their family's wealth, but really loved Du Jun as a person, I finally agreed. At that time, considering that my parents were both migrant workers and could not provide a decent dowry, I did not even mention the bride price.
So, in 2016, I married Du Jun, when I was 27 years old. There was no bride price, no dowry, and even the wedding photos and the decoration of the new house were paid by Du Jun and I out of our own pockets.
After I got married, my stepmother treated me a lot better, and often sent some agricultural products over, saying that they were all green and organic food, which was rare to find in the city. She told me that they were really powerless and unlucky enough to make money, so I worked part-time in college. Now that the situation is better, my mother-in-law has opened a company and has money, and Du Jun is very good to me, and my difficult days can be regarded as the end.
Every time my stepmother came, she was always reluctant to leave, envious of the comfortable bed in our house, and envious of our beautiful house. I remember very well that it was Women's Day on March 8, 2017. My stepmother brought me 20 eggs, put a pair of ** earrings on my dresser on her own ears, and asked me if I looked good. Before I could answer, my mother-in-law suddenly appeared.
My mother-in-law has the key to my house, and it just so happens that whenever my mother's family comes, she always shows up in time. So when she saw the earrings her stepmother was wearing, she unceremoniously pressed her stepmother's head and pulled off the earrings hard. The stepmother clutched her torn and bleeding ear and grinned in pain.
Then, the mother-in-law snatched her stepmother's cheap satchel and threw the contents to the ground with a thud. The brooches, hairpins, and commemorative coins that Du Jun gave me also fell out.
The stepmother felt that she had lost face, and she dragged her mother-in-law's hair like crazy, and the mother-in-law grabbed the stepmother's ear with her backhand, and the already torn ear bled more, and both of them were covered with blood on their faces.
I desperately stood between the two of them, crying hysterically, crying hysterically. They were probably frightened by me before they stopped, and they walked out one after the other, rolling their eyes with angry eyes.
I just squatted on the ground, and my tears were dry.
Since then, I have not allowed my mother's family to come without my consent, and Du Jun has also taken back the key of my mother-in-law. I never thought that there would be such a big conflict between my mother's family and my mother-in-law's family.
At the end of the year, I received a ** from my stepmother, saying that my dad had fallen off the shelf on the exterior wall of the construction site and was now in the operating room.
The doctor said that my father had multiple fractures all over his body, his internal organs were also damaged, and his vital signs were extremely unstable, so he needed to cut open the package and be connected to a ventilator to assist in mechanical ventilation. The key is that now the developer and the contractor can't be contacted, and my stepmother asked me to take 30,000 yuan to the hospital to pay first.
When I heard the news, I could only be anxious.
We used up all our savings when we got married, neither of our parents gave us the start-up capital for our small family, and our credit cards were being recycled.
After getting married, Du Jun co-founded a second-hand car exchange, and the business was just starting, and he wanted money. There are still more than 20 cars in the store that have not been sold, and because I am pregnant, I am just doing some part-time work at home, so I really can't get so much money.
Now my father's life is in danger, the family's savings are limited, and the hospital is not a charity, so the funds needed are very urgent. I felt anxious, pins and needles, and my mind was numb.
When I thought that I couldn't find a solution, I decided to face the reality without hesitation, borrow money from Du Jun's sister-in-law, and solemnly promise to pay it off as soon as possible. However, when I was about to accept the financial support from my sister-in-law, my mother-in-law came over with a roar and resolutely stated that she would never agree to borrow. She cast an aggressive look at me and accused me of seeing my stepmother for what she really was, because she always used all kinds of means for personal gain.
In front of my sister-in-law, I felt extremely embarrassed and speechless, so I could only turn around and leave silently. My mother-in-law dragged me into the car and drove straight to the hospital. My stepmother and several co-workers were also waiting at the hospital, accusing us of not paying our medical bills for a long time, which caused the hospital to repeatedly demand payment.
As a result, two women broke out in a fierce quarrel in the hospital lobby over the medical expenses of my father's hospitalization, which made the situation uneasy.
I leaned limply against the wall and eventually slipped to the ground. A chill spread all over my body, and I was afraid that my father would never wake up again. I buried my head between my knees, my fingers digging deep into my flesh, and a deep resentment for my mother-in-law rose in my heart. Despite the stepmother's greed, at an emergency moment, the mother-in-law turned out to be so indifferent and disregarded family affection.
When Du Jun arrived, he gently wiped away my tears, hugged me to the hospital bench, and comforted me and said that everything would be fine. He urgently called the mayor** and contacted the labor bureau, and the developer sent someone to pay the medical bills, promising to be responsible to the end.
After spending ten days in the intensive care unit, my father was finally out of danger, and my hanging heart was able to let go. After all this, I was determined to improve my relationship with my mother-in-law, and I was determined to live my life well.
My mother-in-law has always been dissatisfied with me, and I know that very well.
At the end of the year of marriage, Du Jun's grandmother confessed on her deathbed that her house would be divided into two sets after the demolition, one set would go to Du Jun, and the other would have the names of me and my sister-in-law written on it.
Half a year later, the final allocation of the demolished house was completed. I witnessed my mother-in-law give the keys to both houses to my sister-in-law, and we didn't give an explanation. Although I don't care about anything, Du Jun is her son after all!
Just because the sister-in-law's mother-in-law married a house and had a dowry of 500,000 yuan, her mother-in-law was impressed by her. It turned out that in the eyes of her mother-in-law, the right marriage was what she wanted.
I really wanted to find my mother-in-law to theorize, but Du Jun hugged me into his arms and said, our life is very good now, and we are better on our own than anything else. I burst into tears and said I'm sorry.
I suddenly felt an urge to escape, feeling that I had become a burden to Du Jun. If Du Jun hadn't married me, he would have had a better life.
Du Jun seemed to see through my mind and stroked my head: "Fool, without you, my life will lose its meaning!."”
In the face of Du Jun's deep affection, I can only swear from the bottom of my heart that I will work hard to make money and live our small life well. This incident made me have a greater desire for money, and since I don't have a strong mother's support, I can only become stronger myself.
After giving birth, I took care of the child while looking for a part-time job, and at the same time, Du Jun's shop business gradually prospered, and our lives gradually improved.
One day in August 2018, I was pushing my child for a walk in the park. From a distance, I saw my sister-in-law holding her mother-in-law's hand, standing at the main entrance of the park and looking at the bus stop. The two of them talked and laughed freely, and they seemed very intimate. My mother-in-law is a person who values power too much, and she has never given me the opportunity to be close to her. I was going to get away from them and enter through the side entrance of the park.
A man in his 50s got off the bus, and his mother-in-law staggered to greet him, and the two hugged and cried. I stopped and looked at them quizzically. When my sister-in-law saw me, she waved at me and motioned for me to come over.
When my mother-in-law saw me coming, she wiped away her tears, pointed to the man, and told me and my sister-in-law, this is your uncle. After saying that, I couldn't help crying. The sister-in-law called "uncle" sweetly, and I snorted, leaving under the pretext of changing the child's diaper.
In the evening, I asked Du Jun what had happened, and he told me that it was indeed his uncle. The mother-in-law paid a lot for this younger brother, but the younger brother was not grateful, and finally committed a bank robbery and hurt people, and was sentenced to 25 years in prison. The mother-in-law has always emphasized making them independent when it comes to educating their children.
My uncle was a young man when he went in, and he was much older when he came out. This has become a matter of concern for the mother-in-law. In the middle of the night on October 14, my father-in-law asked Du Jun to go to the Provincial People's Hospital quickly, saying that his mother-in-law fell in the bathroom in the middle of the night and was already in the emergency room. Du Jun hurried to the hospital.
The next morning, I also went to the hospital and learned that my mother-in-law had suffered a stroke. My father-in-law has been holding my mother-in-law's hand, and she has aged a lot. Seeing my mother-in-law lying on the hospital bed, with crooked mouth, slurred speech, and pale face, my hatred for her has lessened a lot, but I still can't completely let go.
Du Jun saw me, took the child, and led me to sit on a bench outside the hospital. He told me that there was chaos in the house, that things happened so suddenly that some things were too late to arrange.
So, Shadow, there's something you need help with right now. He tidied up the child's clothes, held my hand and said, "Mom's company needs someone to manage it, we have discussed, only you are the most suitable." ”
As soon as I heard this, I shook my head, my mother-in-law didn't like me so much, didn't this add to her blockage!What's more, I don't know anything about my mother-in-law's company, and I've never touched it.
Du Jun analyzed the situation of everyone in the family. My father-in-law has to take care of my mother-in-law, he and my eldest brother can't do without people in their shop, my sister-in-law is a bank executive, and she is pregnant with a second child, so it seems that I am really the only one who is relatively free.
I didn't say a word, I felt upset, and my nose was a little sore. I seem to have really dragged Du Jun back.
Daughter-in-law, are you thinking nonsense again? It's hard enough to take care of children, and no one blames you!Du Jun pulled me with one hand: "Now that my family is in trouble, not to mention my own company, you can take your children there, and the eldest sisters of the company can also help watch the children when they are busy." ”
I'm still reluctant to say yes. My mother-in-law treated me like a thief, and I went to manage her company, and if I made a mess, even if I jumped into the Yellow River, I wouldn't be able to wash it away.
I know your concerns, don't worry, the company has professional finance. Du Jun said with a smile.
I looked at Du Jun's tired appearance, his eyes were bloodshot, and his beard began to grow, and he looked really exhausted. Although I don't have much affection for my mother-in-law, she is his mother after all. In the face of Du Jun's request, I had to reluctantly agree.
My mother-in-law was just a cleaner at the beginning, and gradually developed into a property management company today, specializing in cleaning and greening the community, and has a good reputation in the industry. For me, taking over the company was stressful and I wasn't sure if I could do it.
Du Jun's eyes flashed with hesitation, and he secretly glanced at me many times. I patted his hand and urged him to continue. The next words kept me at bay for a long time.
It turned out that my mother-in-law didn't want me to be her daughter-in-law at the beginning. She felt that my background was not good, and even resented my parents, thinking that they were irresponsible, and that they were obviously not loving me enough by leaving the children in the care of the elderly. But when faced with unattainable love, people tend to work harder to prove their abilities, and I even sacrificed my small family in order to gain recognition in front of my family. However, once the family places their hopes on it, it is as if a bottomless abyss has been opened.
The uncle's story is the best proof of this. My mother-in-law repeatedly prevented me from providing financial help to my family, believing that "teaching people to fish is only a temporary problem, but teaching people to fish can solve a lifetime's difficulties." At that time, my father was in the hospital for 10 days before being transferred to the general ward, but the so-called developer and the contractor blamed each other, claiming that they could not afford the medical expenses in the later stage because they had not formally signed a labor contract.
The stepmother only cares about ** and doesn't help. The mother-in-law had no choice but to take Du Jun to the Social Security Bureau, coordinate with the developer, and finally won more than 300,000 yuan in compensation. I always thought that the developers would pay out of conscience, and it made me jaw-dropping.
Tears welled up in my eyes, and the information was a little overwhelming. Du Jun went on to say that he didn't want my mother-in-law and I to be in a stalemate forever, after all, we were the two women he loved the most. I snuggled on Du Jun's shoulder, grateful for his love for me, and I decided to love him with my heart and share the responsibilities of the family.
Love is inherently mutual.
After taking over my mother-in-law's company, I realized that most of the employees here are elderly people from rural areas, who are hard-working but difficult to accept in other jobs. What surprised me even more was that my uncle also worked here, taking care of flowers and plants and cleaning up garbage like ordinary people. These people were helpless in the city, and her mother-in-law converted two demolished houses into staff dormitories.
A year later, the mother-in-law was doing well. When I handed the company back to her, I took over more than a dozen communities. At the same time, my part-time job also began to earn more than 10,000 yuan a month, which allowed me to take care of my family and have financial support. Life becomes more confident.
It is better to save the poor than to save the poor, and the only way to get rid of the disease of poverty is to teach them the ability to make money.
In many cases, it is not the unfairness of fate, but the inadequacy of the individual. Everyone should set a plan for their own life, after all, relying on oneself is far more reliable than relying on others.