Li Chunping, a well-known name. He is known as the "first person in a century of charity", and has devoted his life to public welfare, with a total donation of 6300 million yuan. However, when he was old and suffering from Alzheimer's disease, he did not die well - the nursing home staff who were supposed to provide him with comfortable care saw him as a predator and tried to torment him in a vain attempt to divide his property. Originally, living in a famous nursing home with a monthly fee of more than 200,000 yuan, Li Chunping was ready to live a prosperous old age. 
The staff of the nursing home soon revealed their robber nature: they wantonly interfered with Li Chunping's daily life, beat him at every turn, and forced him to stamp unintelligible documents. Until one day, in front of the real estate hall in Chaoyang District, seeing his real estate certificate being held in his hands by two strangers and leaving with a sneer, Li Chunping finally broke down and cried loudly in the cold wind. The last thing he wants to face in this life is this moment. He was once known as the crown of charity, but in his twilight years, he could not reap even a shred of mercy. Huge fortunes can't be exchanged for decent old age, and those dazzling medals don't seem to shine anymore. When this old man faced the most cruel provocation of fate, vulnerability and helplessness prevailed. Fate came to a great reversal, ruining the glory of his life. Even if many elderly people have a wealthy family, they cannot escape the fate of being deceived. Some criminals deliberately set up a scam to do what they liked and empty their wallets. 
Whether it's farmhouse, health tea or high-return financial products, the means are endless. This seems to remind us that wealth accumulation alone is not enough to ensure a happy and comfortable twilight life. What's more, even if they have children and daughters, some children ignore their kinship and will, and after seeing their wealth, they blindly "gnaw at the elderly" and threaten to send the elderly to nursing homes. For the elderly who are new parents, it is tantamount to a vicious circle of raising children to prevent old age in the first half of their lives, and preventing children from providing for the elderly in the second half of their lives. But we can't ignore the fact that many younger generations do stand up when their parents need love, and the warmth of family affection is far more real and simple than glamorous money. 
The crux of the matter is not the children themselves, but whether the parents are nurturing them with care. Let the little life have a strong independent thinking ability and moral awareness, and the feedback of love will eventually come naturally. For the elderly, this kind of warmth extended by blood is the pillar they need most in the ups and downs. Therefore, even if the road to parenting is difficult, it is still a wiser choice to be able to rely on flesh and blood when you are old. We have to admit that even if we have children, their care and love for the elderly will be poor. Some children are indifferent, only interested in pleasure, and even abandon the elderly for a little money. But no matter how bad the situation is, at least there is the bottom line of "can't bear to ignore it" and the awe of "the foundation of humanity". 
In contrast, strangers who have no ties are far less likely to have these scruples. In order to plunder the property of the elderly, a nursing home employee with a sharp word can imagine the bad means he can take. In addition, even if it is not at this time, the elderly who do not have children by their side will be more likely to feel lonely and helpless. We need to realize that the presence of children is like a mirror for the elderly, allowing him to examine every step of his life. Have you ever nurtured your child with heart?Is there enough care?This will directly affect the warmth he harvested in his later years. Therefore, even in the face of unfilial piety, I still want to have flesh and blood to rely on each other on the last part of my life. This may not be a complete risk aversion, but it is certainly the most reliable way. 
As social animals, people cannot live in groups. This means that we need to constantly pass on our genes and civilization, and we need family members to accompany us. When a person is crawling on the last road, who will be his strongest backing?Blood is thicker than water, and flesh and blood are the most likely to lend a hand. This is not a given, but it is almost an indisputable fact. The result may not be satisfactory, but as long as you put enough love and effort, you will not "raise" your child for no reason. Therefore, life is like a road, and in the twilight years, you still need your family to rely on each other. Although it may not be 100% reliable, it is the most fundamental sustenance. 
It is not difficult to imagine how troublesome and painful it is to have children. From the beginning of pregnancy, they are frightened, and after birth, they are even more worried and worried about planning for their future. By the time the child grows up**, the parents are already past the age of sixties. This life can be said to be doing my best for children. However, when I enter old age and face the endless life of old age alone, the feeling of loneliness and helplessness may be even more than all the hardships of raising children. Even if you have a lot of money, what can you do?These things can't give spiritual sustenance, let alone resist the calculations of the interest groups around them. 
On the contrary, even if the child is not very filial, at least there are some bonds. They can't do the most cruel hand to the old man, because it goes against human instinct. Moreover, as long as the education method is appropriate, the chances of disobedience are very small. Parents have flesh and blood, and there is always someone to shelter from the wind and rain in their old age. Therefore, although raising children to prevent old age is the only way in life, it is almost true and irrefutable that you still need to help each other when you are old. Life is like a white horse, and we still need children to wait for the final journey.