In interpersonal communication, a woman's words are like a cloak to show her "character". In the speech, people who are vulgar and unreasonable and do not know the sense of proportion often make people feel annoying, just like the sloppy appearance makes people unwilling to get close. On the other hand, women who are knowledgeable and gentle and virtuous in conversation have become the objects of people's affection. Sigmund Freud once said, "There is no such thing as a slip of the tongue, all slips of the tongue are the expression of the subconscious." Thus, a woman's words reflect her character.
01. Be measured and know how to measure.
Women with good character know how to speak in a measured manner. People who speak too harshly and thoughtlessly are prone to crossing the bottom line of social interaction and hurting others. Aunt Kang in the TV series "Do You Know" is an example, she holds a little kinship hostage, deliberately exposes Minglan 's private affairs, and tries to create conflicts between husband and wife. This lack of sense of proportion makes people feel disgusted. Women who speak well know how to embody gentleness and rationality in their words, which makes people feel more comfortable.
02. Don't discuss right and wrong, show noble cultivation.
Women with good character tend not to like to talk about right and wrong. People who are too fond of revealing people's privacy and making casual comments about others are often labeled as "gossipy" and "unreliable". Zeng Guofan once said: "There is room for not talking, there is room for not doing things, and there is no afterglow for love." "Between words, respect for others is a reflection of good and bad character. A truly cultivated woman knows how to respect others, avoid discussing the rights and wrongs of others, and show noble cultivation.
03. Humility is beautiful and avoid selling yourself.
Women with good character know that humility is beauty. In contrast, people who like to show off themselves and praise themselves too much often make people feel tired. Humble women are willing to humbly ask others for advice and are willing to make continuous progress in their academic Xi. This is in stark contrast to those who have no one in their sights and are selfish and arrogant. Humble women know how to be low-key in their words and deeds, and don't like to show off in front of others, which makes them more respected.