My girlfriend was angry, and the atmosphere was like a sudden silence in the room, as if a blade was about to fall. At this time, it's not hiding in the corner and pretending not to see it, let alone taking out your mobile phone and swiping the circle of friends to pretend to be super invincible and calm. So, how do you respond when your girlfriend is angry?
First of all, don't rush to make a big news, calm down, and don't fight back with an overly aggressive tone. It's like watching a popcorn blockbuster movie in the cinema, you will occasionally encounter a sudden advertisement, don't panic, and don't rush to pull out your phone and post on Weibo. When your girlfriend is angry, staying calm is your first step.
Then, don't be like a problematic teenager who keeps asking "what's wrong" and "why are you angry". This will only make her feel like you're shirking your responsibilities and things are likely to get more chaotic. Try to ask in a gentle tone with concern, "Honey, what happened, can you tell me about it?"Perhaps, she just needs an outlet for catharsis, and your concern will comfort her.
If your girlfriend gets angry, don't turn your head away "dismissively", and don't just turn around and run. Doing so will only make her feel that you are not serious enough about your relationship, and besides, when a man is coquettish, it is actually quite charming. Try to step forward, gently take her hand, and with a warm look, say, "Don't be angry, okay?"Such a simple sentence may set off a small ripple in her heart.
But don't overlook the fact that not all anger can be laughed off, and not all problems can be solved overnight. Sometimes, the girlfriend's anger may be worried or dissatisfied with something, and we need to pay attention to it. In the process of communication, listening to her and understanding her feelings can sometimes help solve the problem more than just explaining.
Finally, learn to apologize. Don't wait for her to be furious before rushing to put out the fire. When your girlfriend is angry, a timely and sincere apology can resolve many conflicts. Remember, apologizing is not an admission of defeat, but a sign of maturity and responsibility. Resolve a dispute with a simple and sincere "I'm sorry, I was wrong" and, believe me, it's more efficient than arguing.
Girlfriend getting angry may be an inevitable part of the relationship. At this time, don't run away, let alone ignore it. Communicate with your heart, respect the other person's feelings, and let her know that you are not trying to win a war of words, but for a reconciliation. Perhaps, in this process, you will find that when your girlfriend is angry, it is also when she needs your company the most.