Faced with your boyfriend's snobbish reality, you can try the following ways to deal with it:
Communication and understanding:Try to communicate openly and honestly with your boyfriend and understand his thoughts and values. Understanding why he has a strong focus on money or status may help you understand him better.
Express your opinion:Express your values and views on money and status. Let him know that your values may be different, but they are just as important.
Finding common ground:Try to find your common interests and values so that you can agree on something.
Grow with him:Try to influence and support each other to make each other understand the importance of other aspects of life besides money and status.
Thinking about the future:If there is a huge divergence between your values and his, and this affects your relationship, you may want to consider whether you want to continue the relationship.
If his snobbish values are very different from yours and this is causing distress in your relationship, then you need to think carefully about whether the relationship is what you want to continue to develop. Alignment of values is very important in a relationship.