Time is too thin, and the finger seams are too wide.
In 2023, too many things have happened in the world, some of them are so big that they have no obvious correlation with individuals, but in fact, they have also produced a butterfly effect, slowly showing its impact. Some personal things, once they continue to ferment, will also extend to other fields, the so-called "one stone stirs up a thousand waves".
Although we can't save time, we can let time testify, guiding us through the fog, trying our best to see clearly and firmly towards 2024.
Starting in 2024, if you can stick to the following 10 points, there will definitely be a qualitative leap.
1. Insist on looking at the problem from the front and maintain confidence. Human beings have two kinds of thinking, one focuses on "breaking" and the other tends to "stand". Although it is right to find out the problem of "not breaking or standing", it is always necessary to position the angle in the negative, the eyes are full of shortcomings, and the mind is full of shortcomings, which will weaken one's confidence. Those who are not pleasing to the society, over time, not only do they not fit in with society, but even they will screw themselves.
Second, we should pay attention to "poetry and distance", but the premise is to take "the immediate reluctance" seriously. Feelings and reality are not contradictory, just as looking up at the stars and being down-to-earth must be unified. Adoring the moon in the sky all day long, ignoring the nearest sixpence, you will be in trouble. In a word, we can't be too "empty" or too "floating", we must be pragmatic and do more practical things. In this regard, "task-driven" is a good choice. That is, less fantasy and more hard work.
3. Improve judgment, learn to take the initiative to choose, and don't be a slave of big data. The profit-seeking nature of capital, coupled with the use of information technology, has led to a terrible fact: mobile phones and computers know themselves better than we do. If you can't make quick judgments and choose quickly, you will let the technology lead you by the nose. One way to do this is to not turn on your phone without a clear purpose.
Fourth, get out of your comfort zone, improve your ability to act, and have the courage to declare war on your own inertia. As we age, our inherent inertia grows. Especially when life and work can still be "reasonable", the tragedy of boiling frogs in warm water has been staged again and again. Then, when faced with one thing, the first thing to consider is "should you do it", not "whether you want to do it" and "whether you are interested in doing it". If you should, act now.
Fifth, proceed from reality, establish clear goals, and believe in and practice long-termism. A person's time, energy, and ability are very limited, especially at a time when the social division of labor is becoming more and more detailed. To seek survival and development, on the one hand, we must focus on our personal responsibilities and main business, stabilize the guy who eats, and strive to excel in the field where we are located, and have the right to speak;On the other hand, starting from interests and specialties, we will deepen the cultivation of a topic, do it for a long time, and achieve results.
6. Accept yourself, be good at adjustment, and reduce mental internal friction. The relationship that people can best deal with is not with the world, nor with others, but with oneself. No matter what kind of original family you are in, no matter what your appearance is, how much your IQ is, how much your salary is, and how high your status is, you must recognize your current self and affirm the value of your own existence. No matter what happens, you can adjust your mentality in time to minimize self-consumption and torture at the psychological level.
7. Improve self-cultivation, show good side, and provide positive emotional value for others. Everyone is under a lot of pressure, and every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. Everyone who comes into contact with us never wants to hear anything to talk about, to see a bitter face, to solve some problems, to make friends in general, especially relatives with whom we don't have many contacts. Therefore, it is necessary to exercise in front of people and learn to "disguise" to make people feel affinity and infectiousness.
8. Start by solving problems, read more books, and enhance curiosity and desire for knowledge. Most of the paper works are learning, and fragmented browsing such as Douyin and Weibo is also learning, but it is necessary to start from solving practical problems, not random, and put an end to aimlessness. No matter what age you are, curiosity about new things is essential, whether it is knowledge or skills, and you can learn a little more and know a little more. When you live and learn, and when your brain is young, you will be young.
9. Make more friends, even if it's just a nod of friendship, even if it's just a name in the address book. No matter how developed the network is, it is only a virtual world, and it cannot solve too many real problems. Therefore, knowing more people through various channels opens one more window, and to believe in the energy of any person, it is enough to provide a message at a critical time.
10. Choose an exercise method that suits you and have a healthy body. The more stressful you are, the more you experience the importance of health. Health not only reduces pain and saves money, but from another point of view, it is actually earning money. Imagine, if there is a problem with the body, not to mention spending money in vain, losing energy and reducing the quality of life, it is the least cost-effective thing. Therefore, starting from your own conditions, insisting on moderate exercise is a necessary choice.
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