The physical disability, the resistance to disease for more than 700 days and nights, and the ...... of life and death as a bet with only a 25% success rate of surgery
In the end, Li Caicai, who can finally walk the future flower road with both feet, can definitely be said to be a winner in life who relies on a good attitude to turn the tables against the wind.
She uses her own life experience to vividly explain to us what it means to be "brave people enjoy the world first".
As the saying goes: "Things change with the heart, the environment is created by the heart, and the troubles are born from the heart."
In this life, fate is like a wheel, and mentality is like a helmsman.
Faced with the same thing, people with a good mindset and people with a bad mindset often see things differently.
Even if the trajectory of life should be the same, it will change depending on the mentality.
Just like Li Caicai, in such a dark situation, of course she can choose to be negative, but she still says, "I must live every day with wishes."
There is also a story that also speaks to the importance of a "good attitude".
There are two elderly people who need to use electric wheelchairs due to leg problems, but they have different mindsets when choosing whether they want to sit or not.
Lao Wang thinks that what is the difference between sitting in an electric wheelchair and the disabled?Isn't it just a waste?What will others think of me?Where am I going to put my face?
Lao Zhang believes that by sitting in an electric wheelchair, I can finally travel freely, and I will welcome more beauty, harvest more happiness, and experience more different colors of life.
One sees the opposite side of things, one sees the positive side of things.
A person sees "sitting in an electric wheelchair" as a synonym for "useless", only to see its disadvantages;One person sees "in an electric wheelchair" as a derivative of "hope" and finds it beneficial.
In the end, because of the different mentalities of the two, their life outcomes are also very different.
Because Lao Wang did not use an electric wheelchair, he has been bound by leg diseases, and the burden of his children's life has become heavier and heavier.
Because Lao Zhang uses an electric wheelchair, the original bound life has been liberated, and his children do not have to work hard and take care of them day and night, so the family is happy and life is full of laughter.
Seeing this, everyone should understand that what binds Lao Wang is not actually an inconvenient step, but a negative mentality.
The decisive factor for two old people to get different outcomes is the quality of the mentality.
If Lao Wang can see the highlights of electric wheelchairs and the benefits they bring, such as the low cost of electric wheelchairs to Xi learn, but the effect of assisted travel is surprisingly good.
From 3-year-old children to 90-year-old people, they can learn as soon as they learn, and because of the electric wheelchair, they can see more of the prosperity and splendor of this world.
For another example, if you choose an electric wheelchair with excellent quality, strong body stability, ergonomic design of the seat, basic safety configurations such as seat belts, anti-roll wheels, electromagnetic brakes, etc., and even equipped with functions such as automatic speed reduction when cornering, intelligent voice prompts, etc.
Then this kind of assisted travel, compared with their original independent travel, the safety will be significantly improved, and accidents such as "accidental falls" will not occur.
Therefore, in addition to life and death, everything else is a trivial matter, as long as there is still a breath of air, we must maintain a good attitude.
What's more, not only the superficial travel will be changed, but the inner sense of dignity, gain, and self-confidence will also be improved.
For example, Lao Zhang, who was originally unable to travel for a long time because of knee arthritis, although he had a manual wheelchair, he had no strength in his hands after using it for a long time, and over time, the idea of traveling was forced to be dispelled.
Sometimes it is serious, and I have always needed the care of my family, so my posture has been very low, I can't straighten my waist, and my sense of dignity and self-confidence has gradually been smoothed out.
With an electric wheelchair, you can do everything on your own, so you have a lot more dignity, a sense of gain, and a lot more confidence – something that no panacea can do.
Therefore, if you have a good attitude, life will be smooth;If you don't have a good mentality, everything is difficult.
What kind of mentality you have, what kind of life you will have.
Finally, I hope that no matter what you encounter, you will have a good attitude to solve the difficulties of life and welcome the light of the dark alley.