Viny Summer"The insight of the world is all knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article. "In interpersonal communication, we always hope to be able to build good relationships with others, but sometimes we find that we always have bad relationships with others. Actually, this may be because we don't understand the unspoken rules of socializing. These rules, although not explicitly stated, are widely followed in social situations. Today, let's take a look at the five unspoken rules of social interaction that smart people are using!1. Listen first, then speak"He who speaks well wins his audience;A good listener can win friends. "In social situations, many people are always eager to express their opinions and ideas, but they ignore the importance of listening to others. Smart people know that listening is the key to a good relationship. When we listen to the ideas and stories of others, we can better understand them and, in turn, build a deeper connection with them. For example, Xiao Li met a stranger at a party, but he did not rush to introduce himself, but listened to the other person's story first. Through listening, he learned about the other person's interests and life experiences, and then established a good relationship with the other person. 
2. Praise should be specific and criticism should be tactful"Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June. "Praise and criticism are two common forms of feedback in social networking. Smart people know that praise should be specific and criticism should be tactful. When we compliment others, concrete compliments can make them feel sincere and recognized;And when we criticize others, tactful criticism can reduce the resistance of the other person, and thus make it easier to accept our suggestions. For example, Xiao Wang encountered a problem at work, and his colleagues took the initiative to help him solve the problem. Xiao Wang did not simply say "thank you", but specifically praised his colleagues' professionalism and team spirit. This specific compliment makes colleagues feel recognized and respected. 3. Be mysterious and don't be too transparent"Mystery is the source of attraction. "Maintaining a certain sense of mystery in social situations can make us more engaging. Being too transparent can make others lose interest and curiosity about us. Smart people know that keeping some mystery properly can increase their charm and appeal. For example, at a party, Xiao Zhang did not reveal too much about his personal information and life experience, but maintained a certain sense of mystery. This sense of mystery makes others more curious and interested in him, and then more willing to communicate with him. 
4. Don't overpromise, but stay honest"A light promise must be untrustworthy. "In social situations, many people are Xi to over-promising to please others. But smart people know that overpromising will only make us lose trust and respect. Maintaining integrity is one of the keys to building a good relationship. When we promise something, we must do our best to accomplish it and not let the other person down. For example, Xiao Zhao promised the delivery time of a project at work, and although he faced many difficulties, he did not give up and worked hard to complete the project. This integrity has earned him the trust and respect of his colleagues and leaders. 5. Don't interrupt others' speeches at will"Interrupting someone is rude. "In social situations, interrupting others at will can make them feel neglected and disrespected. Smart people know that respecting the voice of others is one of the keys to building a good relationship. When we want to express our own opinions or ideas, we must wait for others to finish speaking before speaking. For example, in a meeting, Xiao Li wanted to express his opinion, but he did not interrupt others at will, but waited for others to finish speaking before speaking. This respect earned him the respect and recognition of the other attendees. 
Conclusion:The above are the five unspoken rules of social interaction that smart people are using: listen before you speak;Praise should be specific and criticism should be tactful;Keep the mystery and don't be too transparent;Don't overpromise, but be honest;Don't interrupt others. If we can follow these rules, I believe we will be able to navigate social situations and build good interpersonal relationships.