In 2006, 30-year-old Shen Aojun took out a bank card from his bag and handed it to Nie Yuan: "This is the 2 million I have saved, please use it to prepare for our wedding!"”
Nie Yuan was stunned for a moment, and did not immediately show his attitude, but turned to look out the window.
After thinking about it carefully for a while, he resolutely turned around and said, "I'm sorry, I can't marry you because I already like the little junior sister." ”
In an instant, Shen Aojun felt the hot blood surging all over his body, his body stumbled a few times, and he almost fell. She looked at Nie Yuan with tears in her eyes, but she felt a hint of relief from his gaze.
Shen Aojun originally planned to end his 8-year long-distance relationship, but in the end he lost the person who had always been by his side.
This blow was simply devastating for Shen Aojun.
Shen Aojun was in pain in his heart, but he didn't deliberately keep it, but chose to let go and have an unforgettable relationship with him.
She finally understood that Nie Yuan didn't want to get married, but he didn't want to marry her.
He entered the entertainment industry because of his prominence in advertising.
Many young people may be unfamiliar with Shen Aojun's name, but for the post-80s audience, this name is simply familiar.
She played the radiant Sai Xi Shi in "Divine Doctor Xilaile", and in "The Love History of the Tang Dynasty", she played the graceful and luxurious Princess Gaoyang.
Sun Honglei's role in "Latent", his first love girlfriend Zuo Lan.
She portrays every character she has worked so hard to portray in the hearts of the people, and at the same time, her deep acting skills are deeply imprinted in the hearts of the audience.
Because of her acting skills in costume dramas, the audience even gave her a reputation - "Goddess of Costume Beauty".
The gentleness and dignity of a southern girl in Shen Aojun attracts many people, but the fact is that she is an authentic northerner.
She is the eldest of four girls in her family and has her own hometown in Harbin, Heilongjiang.
Influenced by the eldest sister, Shen Aojun chose to embark on the road of acting.
The eldest sister was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy with her own strength, and stayed in the school to teach after graduation and became a university teacher. At the same time, the third sister also developed a strong interest in acting, and she was successfully admitted to the drama and became a student of the eldest sister.
Shen Aojun's two sisters both chose to go to the play, which made her yearn for this choice. Although her parents gave her pertinent advice and didn't want her to follow this path, the stubborn Shen Aojun still insisted on her ideas.
In 1995, Shen Aojun was finally admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy, majoring in TV editing.
Shen Aojun has spent three years of life in college, and she has never had a time to relax herself, she firmly grasps the time to learn professional knowledge, and does not think about anything else.
The hard work she put into it during this time also contributed to her rapid growth.
With excellent results, after graduation, Shen Aojun was assigned to the Shanghai TV Xiaoyingxing Art Troupe to work behind the scenes. She is highly professional and comfortable in her work.
Shen Aojun originally thought that she would have this stable and decent job for the rest of her life. Unexpectedly, however, an ad changed her fate.
PepsiCo was looking for Aaron Kwok to endorse an advertisement in Shanghai, so he needed an actress as his partner. By chance, advertisers discovered Shen Aojun and thought that her temperament was very compliant.
Shen Aojun, only 21 years old, was lucky to be selected.
Although Shen Aojun graduated from Shangju, she has never participated in advertising shooting.
Before the start of filming, she stood in front of the camera a little nervous and uncertain, as if she was walking on thin ice. However, once the shooting began, she seemed to find her sense in an instant, and completed the shooting task naturally and generously, winning the unanimous approval of advertisers.
Shen Aojun himself didn't expect that the advertisement would usher in a very good response as soon as it was broadcast.
This advertisement made Shen Aojun famous in the industry, and many directors threw olive branches to her, hoping to cooperate with her in filming.
Faced with the influx of invitations, Shen Aojun made a decision: quit his job and go to the entertainment industry.
Shen Aojun has no professional training, but he has successfully created many roles with his outstanding acting talent, and has gradually gained a firm foothold in the highly competitive entertainment industry.
Shen Aojun has always been clear about what he wants, which is in stark contrast to the situation where many young people go with the flow, from adolescence to adulthood.
It is precisely because she remains sober that she can make the right choices at various forks in the road in life.
My 8-year relationship with my boyfriend finally came to an end.
She starred in the TV series "Love History of the Tang Dynasty", which made Shen Aojun truly well-known.
In the play, Shen Aojun vividly interprets the beautiful, noble, and tragic image of Princess Gaoyang. In her unruly love with the debate monk, she broke free from the shackles, pursued true love, and performed a shocking Tang Dynasty tragedy.
In the play, emotions are surging like a tide, and Shen Aojun in real life has also fallen into the abyss of emotional entanglement with Nie Yuan, unable to extricate himself, just like Princess Gaoyang.
It is the young actor Nie Yuan who plays the debate monk in the TV series "Love History of the Tang Dynasty".
Shen Aojun fell in love with the young and handsome Nie Yuan, and his image not only deeply attracted the audience, but also left an indelible mark on her heart.
After months of filming, "The Love History of the Tang Dynasty" allowed Shen Aojun and Nie Yuan to gradually sprout a spark of love in their close relationship.
They quickly established a relationship, and the two talented and good-looking people became a good story in the entertainment industry.
Two people who love each other always have a good time, they are deeply in love and show their love for each other unabashedly. Even if they are in a different place, as long as they have free time, they will fight each other and care about each other, which makes the friends around them envious.
Even in the entertainment industry, couples are commonplace, but their relationship is as solid as a rock.
In Shen Aojun's opinion, Nie Yuan was like bringing a ray of light to her life.
She put all her thoughts on Nie Yuan, treating him as a treasure.
Perhaps it was sweet love that brought good luck to Shen Aojun, and since she successfully portrayed the role of Princess Gaoyang, there has been a steady stream of film appointments.
Even so, Shen Aojun would still rush home in a hurry after completing the filming task, just to cook dinner for Nie Yuan.
However, Nie Yuan's acting career did not go as smoothly as Shen Aojun.
He has been looking for a role in the crew, but has never succeeded, which makes Nie Yuan, an actor who has always advocated machismo, feel quite uncomfortable.
Shen Aojun, as Nie Yuan's girlfriend, has been silently by his side. She not only takes care of all aspects of his life, but also often comforts him and encourages him to improve his acting skills, waiting for opportunities to come.
The distance between the two gradually widens, and the once delicate balance is gradually disrupted.
Once a mustard is planted in a person's heart, it is difficult to recover. The two hearts that once loved each other will gradually drift apart because of this.
When Shen Aojun used to film in other places, they would talk on the phone three times a day, but they didn't get in touch for a few days. Even so, Shen Aojun was convinced of Nie Yuan and didn't care too much about it.
It was pure fate to know Nie Yuan, and said to Shen Aojunlai. The two have a deep relationship, and getting married seems to be a matter of course. She has even considered that she is willing to give up her career for the sake of her family if she needs to.
Shen Aojun's ultimate ideal is to manage love and marriage well.
Whenever Shen Aojun thought that one day he would put on a white wedding dress and take Nie Yuan's hand into the sacred marriage hall, he would feel overjoyed.
However, whenever she mentioned "getting married", Nie Yuan always replied: My current popularity is not enough, and when I become famous, I can marry you back with dignity.
In an instant, they experienced 8 years of ups and downs, and Shen Aojun also ushered in the year of establishment.
Her promise to Nie Yuan was not fulfilled, but she was betrayed by his feelings, and the two who had high hopes finally parted ways.
There is nothing more embarrassing than when one person is planning the future while the other is planning to part ways.
Although there was a lot of reluctance in his heart, Shen Aojun did not deliberately keep it, but chose to let go of this unforgettable relationship and let each other forget each other in the rivers and lakes.
Choose again, and you will usher in a happy and beautiful life.
After breaking up, Shen Aojun and Nie Yuan parted ways. She trapped herself in her room all day, refusing to touch the script or go out, cut off from all contact with the outside world.
However, this relationship, which spanned her entire youth, ended hastily without any warning.
She was disgruntled, after all.
When the family saw Shen Aojun's appearance, they were all worried about her, and they did everything they could to get Shen Aojun out of the emotional trough.
In order to help her relax, her family constantly arranged blind dates for her. Shen Aojun saw through all this, but he didn't say it directly, but silently cooperated with his family and participated in every blind date scene.
It is difficult for people who have been emotionally hurt to trust love anymore.
Shen Aojun was originally not interested in blind dates, but when faced with potential blind dates, she felt that this situation was both funny and helpless. She always thinks that she has completely despaired of her relationship and is destined to die alone in the future.
Her perception soon changed, and the person who caused the change happened to be her current husband.
The two met on a blind date.
When Shen Aojun first met, he was not impressed by this man who was not tall and ordinary looking.
However, Shen Aojun learned that the other party's identity was a diplomat.
He described what he saw and heard to Shen Aojun in a humorous way, which always made Shen Aojun laugh. His profound knowledge and humorous personality made her impressed by the man in front of her.
They then left each other ***
Although the diplomat's daily work is very busy, he never forgets to care about Shen Aojun, and whenever he has free time, he will accompany her to the movies.
When the two discuss the plot together, they find that they have a lot in common with each other, and their views on some issues are surprisingly consistent.
Every time a diplomat goes on a business trip, he will specially bring a small gift to Shen Aojun and describe the local customs to her, which makes Shen Aojun unconsciously full of anticipation for every meeting.
What touched Shen Aojun the most was that the diplomat deliberately saved up for 2 years' salary in order to buy a loose diamond, and personally wore it on her hand when proposing.
Shen Aojun not only received full love in this relationship, but also experienced an unprecedented sense of security, which gradually freed her from the quagmire of disappointment in love.
Eventually, she regained her confidence in love.
In 2009, Shen Aojun and her boyfriend entered a new stage of marriage.
One person's understanding is better than the love of a thousand people, and Shen Aojun's husband is the one who understands her.
After he got married, he still respected and supported Shen Aojun's acting career as before, even if he was busy with work, he never forgot to tell Shen Aojun to take care of himself and pay attention to safety.
He would find his free time to visit the crew, or cook soup and rice at home, waiting for his wife to come home.
Shen Aojun reveled in a happy marriage, and ushered in the crystallization of their love in the second year.
Their once private time has now evolved into a happy family of three, and Shen Aojun has gradually withdrawn from the entertainment industry, teaching his husband and children at home and accompanying his family.
Shen Aojun is now 47 years old.
The bright face of the past has now been carved by the years, and the figure is no longer slender. However, the aging of beautiful women is the normal state of life, and no one is immune.
Now, she has the family happiness she wants, which is exactly what she once dreamed of.
Everything she got was what she expected, and God was always kind to her. The disappointments and injuries that have been suffered are a thing of the past and are not worth mentioning.
Shen Aojun once said that I think that life has given me so many tests to prove that there are so many people around me who love me.
The relationship that lasted through her youth had brought her endless pain and tormented her physically and mentally, but she soberly chose to turn around and start again, and now she finally has a happy life of her own.
We can't keep someone who is determined to leave forever, and it has been proven that any more retention will only embarrass us.
Just like Shen Aojun, he is fully committed in love, and if he no longer loves him, he will not hesitate to let go and say goodbye to the past.
Only by not thinking about the past and not fearing the future is the wisest choice.
Shen Aojun has finally found happiness now, and I hope she can live a happy life forever!