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Caigen Tan is known as "the first book of Chinese self-cultivation", and "Night Talk Around the Fireplace" and "Little Window Ghost" are known as the three classic books of Chinese self-cultivation, written by the hermit Hong Yingming of the Ming Dynasty.
The main purpose of this book is to teach people the way of life in the world, and it integrates the essence of Confucianism, Buddhism, and Taoism into one furnace, and expresses it in wonderful words. **It was once said that those who chew the root can do Pepsi. Reading "Caigen Tan", you can understand the survival wisdom of life and quickly improve your emotional intelligence.
The following shares the 10 most classic quotes of "Caigen Tan", let us appreciate the wisdom of life and the essence of the ancients.
1, the virtue of the load, the amount of elegance to accommodate people, the filth of the earth is more creatures, the water is clear often no fish, so the gentleman should have the amount of dirt and dirt, not to hold a clean and solitary exercise.
In life, if you always look at the people and things around you with a strict and critical eye, then the world is not perfect in your eyes. If we can look at the people and things around us with tolerance and appreciation, and treat others with kindness and tolerance, then we will become more comfortable in dealing with people and things.
2. Purity comes out of filth, and light comes out of darkness. The dung insects are filthy, turning into cicadas and drinking dew in the autumn wind;The rotten grass has no light, turning into fireflies and leaping into the summer moon.
Dung insects are dirty, but they can turn into cicadas and drink pure dew in the autumn wind;The rotten grass has no light and turns into fireflies in the summer when the completion can gather the brightness of the moon. Therefore we know that the pure always comes out of the dirty, and the bright grows out of the dark.
Therefore, even in adversity, we must be bright, work hard, and never give up on ourselves, the only constant in the world is change, ten years in Hedong, ten years in Hexi is not known.
3. The eagle stands like sleep, and the tiger walks like a disease, which is the means for it to take people and devour people. Therefore, a gentleman must be smart and talented, so that he can have the strength to shoulder the throne.
The eagle stands with its eyes half-open and half-closed as if asleep, and the tiger walks languidly and weakly as if it is sickly, but these are the clever ways in which they are prepared to feed. Therefore, a virtuous gentleman must not show off his intelligence or show his talents, so that he can have the strength to take on difficult tasks.
In life, in the workplace, don't always be aggressive, sharp, you can be smarter than others, but you can't show that you are smarter than others everywhere, Yang Xiu in the Three Kingdoms just didn't understand this to attract death.
4, if the sky wants to harm people, he must first be proud of his small blessings, so he doesn't have to be happy when he comes, but he will receive itIf God wants to bless people, he must first set an example of small disasters, so there is no need to worry about disasters, it depends on whether he will save them.
When good fortune comes, we should be steady, not complacent, but cautiousWhen calamity comes, we should not give up on ourselves, but should actively look for ways to overcome it.
Blessings and misfortunes depend on each other, there are always highs and lows in life, we must treat blessings and disasters with a normal heart, don't care too much about temporary gains and losses, and those who can calmly face blessings and disasters must be blessed people.
5, Hong has not come to the first aid bow, the rabbit has died and then called the arrow, it is always not the style of the moment;When the wind rests, the waves rest, and the shore leaves the boat everywhere, and he is the craftsman.
Before the geese arrived, they drew their bows and waited, but the rabbits had already fled, so they shot arrows;There is always no opportunity to make a decision and seize the opportunity;When the wind stops, the waves stop;When the ship arrives at the shore, it leaves the ship, which is the only way to grasp the opportunity and get the kung fu to be captured.
The times create heroes, and success requires the right time, place and people, so wise men never fight with the sky, nor do they fight against the situation, but follow the trend. Judging the situation, making decisions on the spot, and being good at seizing opportunities are the necessary conditions for success.
6. Young people do not suffer from their lack of exuberance, but often suffer from recklessness and recklessness, and should suppress their irritability;Mature people do not suffer from their lack of weight, and often suffer from retreating from holding weight, and they should cheer up their inertia.
Young people are strong in blood and are easy to do things in a hurry, so they should pay more attention to cultivating a steady and down-to-earth character. The elderly have energy failure and blood gas loss, often more than weight, lack of passion, and are easy to rest on their laurels and set limits on themselves, so they should always cheer up their spirits and maintain a young heart.
There are too many young people in life who are young and frivolous, and with a little bit of achievement, they become reckless and reckless, so that they are easy to stumble, and many elderly people are more and more timid because they have experienced the setbacks of the years, and they dare not toss, so they miss a lot of opportunities, so we must be young and old, and we must dare to fight when we are old.
7, from the lively scene ** a few cold words, it will sweep away the infinite killing machine;On the cold road, with a little red heart, he cultivated a lot of business.
When everyone is hot-headed, a few calming words can dispel many thoughts of killing. When people are poor and lowly, giving some help with a fiery heart can ignite many sparks of life.
When people are hot-headed, they are easy to be impulsive, so as to do some irreparable wrong. At this time, it is important to keep them calm, and when a person is depressed, encourage them to get back together.
8. There is no need to invite merit in life, and no fault is merit;Don't be virtuous with others, no resentment is virtue.
You don't need to show off when you do something, those who should understand will naturally understand, and those who don't understand it will be useless to say it. As the saying goes, if you shoot a bird in the head, you must learn to hide your light, so that you are not easy to be jealous and not calculated by villains.
If you help others, don't feel that you have to make them grateful. It's good not to complain. Don't ask too much in your dealings with people, and naturally get acquainted and intersected, so that your feelings are more pure.
9, the world should be square, the troubled times should be round, and the world of Shuji should be used together. It is advisable to be lenient with the good, strict with the wicked, and lenient with the mediocre.
If you live in the prosperous era of Qingming and behave in the world, you must be strict and upright, and you must be uncompromising;But if you live in a turbulent and dim era, you should be tactful and sophisticated, and be wise and self-preservationIf you live in an era of peace and turbulent communication, you must be improvised, using both square and round, square when it should be square, and round when it should be round.
This is not only the political outlook of the ancients, but also an attitude towards life. We must know how to adapt to things, adapt to local conditions, and know how to be flexible, so that we can do things with ease.
10, the wind comes to sparse the bamboo, the wind passes and the bamboo does not leave a sound;The geese cross the cold pool, and the geese go to the pond without taking pictures. Therefore, the gentleman's heart begins to appear when things come, and his heart is empty when things go.
When the breeze blows, the sparse bamboo forest will make a rustling sound, but when the wind blows, the bamboo forest will not leave a sound and will still be silent;Although the geese flying over the cold pool will reflect the shadow of the geese, but after the geese fly, the clear water surface is still crystal and does not leave the shadow of the geese. It can be seen from this that a virtuous gentleman's nature will only be revealed when things come, and afterwards, his nature will return to its original emptiness and calmness.
Therefore, we should have the attitude of being at ease with what happens, and we should do it with all our hearts when things come, and after the things have passed, the mental image should immediately return to the original void and calm, so as to maintain our original true nature.