In a family environment, it is normal for parents to have contact and care for their children. However, when this kind of contact goes beyond the boundaries of family affection and becomes too intimate or even inappropriate, it may cause distress and confusion in the child. Especially when this kind of behavior comes from the father, it can make the children feel confused.
Recently, I have received many private messages from netizens who have told me about the pain they are experiencing. Among them, a 15-year-old boy made a deep impression on me. He wrote: "My father was always doing things to me, and it made me feel very uncomfortable. I knew it wasn't right, but I didn't know what to do. ”
In the face of such a problem, the first thing to be clear is that this behavior of the father is not normal. Whatever the reason, this behavior is a violation of the child's personal space and rights. At the same time, this behavior can also bring long-term physical and mental harm to the child.
For such cases, the first thing to do is to ask for help. You can ask your mother or other relatives for help to understand the situation and deal with it together. You may also want to consider seeking help from a professional organization, such as a counsellor or child protection agency. They can provide professional advice and support.
Also, learn to protect yourself. Try to avoid being alone with your father, and if you can't avoid it, always be vigilant and don't give your father the opportunity to contact him alone. At the same time, it is also necessary to respect and understand the father. Even if his behavior makes you feel painful, try to stay calm and rational to avoid escalating the conflict.
Finally, it's important to remember that it's not your fault. You shouldn't be ashamed or blamed for your father's mistakes. It's your father's problem, not your own. You have the right to be respected and protected, and you have the right to pursue your own happiness and freedom.
Everyone may have different experiences and feelings on this issue. However, we all have the right to seek help and protection regardless of the situation. No matter what difficulties and challenges we face, we have the ability to solve them.