Here's the thing.
A woman sent a spark, saying that her husband was a renovation worker, covered in mud, and doing very hard work.
My husband works very hard, everyone is considerate and considerate of their husbands, don't read the chicken soup on the Internet, and ask my husband every day for gold necklaces, gold bracelets, and gold rings. ”
Is the woman in the above really deceiving herself?
No, everyone's perspective is different, and the problems they see are different, the woman in the article understands her distressed husband who makes money hard, and it is not easy to be satisfied, but more to know how to be content. Her husband must also have something excellent about it that deserves her to be so considerate.
The netizen in the comment said don't PUA yourself and don't PUA us, it's not easy for the netizen to be satisfied, and it may not be possible, maybe she has the ability to buy, so if her husband buys it to give her the icing on the cake, it doesn't matter if you don't buy it, because you can buy it at any time if you want to.
Marriage is to live behind closed doors, just as people know how cold and warm they are. Some people are bent on their families, and some people are bent on escaping from their families.
The best marriage is a two-way love, you understand my hard work, I understand that it is not easy for you to take care of your children and take care of your family. You don't have to impose your ideas on others, who may not approve of you.
In the Spring and Autumn Period, the monarch of Qi had a little daughter, named Wen Jiang, although she was born beautiful, she behaved ** due to excessive pampering. When Wen Jiang reached the age of marriage, the Duke of Qi was ready to marry Wen Jiang to Zheng Guo's crown prince Ji Hu, so he sent an envoy to Zheng Guo to say goodbye.
Qi is a big country, Zheng is a small country, and the relationship between the two countries has always been very good, and now Qi Xugong has taken the initiative to propose marriage, and once Zheng Guo has something to do in the future, he can also get the help of Qi State. Therefore, Zheng Zhuang Gong was full of joy and was ready to agree to this family business. However, when Duke Zhuang told the prince about this, Ji Hu did not agree to this family business. People were puzzled to ask why.
Ji Hu said: "Everyone should have a spouse who matches them. Qi is a big country, Zheng is a small country, such a marriage match is not proportionate. The Book of Songs says: If you want to be happy, you can only rely on yourself. If I want to be happy myself, I can only rely on myself, how can I get it by relying on a big country. Zheng Zhuanggong felt that Ji Hu's words were reasonable and very ambitious, so he agreed to resign from the marriage.
The choice of the crown prince Ji Hu is undoubtedly rational and correct. His attitude towards marriage and his view of mate selection are undoubtedly worth learning from everyone. Although marriage must be based on feelings, factors such as family education, life background, growth environment, cultural accomplishment, customs and habits that are influenced by the family are also important factors affecting marital happiness. If the gap between men and women in the above aspects is too large, it is easy to cause a huge gap between the two parties in terms of outlook on life, behavior and habits, etc., and then affect the harmony of married life and the happiness of the family.
Hong Kong's well-known superstar Eason Chan has always been well-known by everyone for his singing skills. But then it was sent to the hot search because of an inexplicable thing, what is it?
is because of Eason Chan's wife Xu Haoying, which is probably the only one on the whole network who has been discussed by netizens because of his wife's lavish spending.
Xu Haoying is known by many people as a ruined socialite, according to rumors, Xu Haoying costs more than 500,000 yuan per month, and once held a record of spending 800,000 yuan in an hour. I have to buy every color of my favorite bag. In order to buy her the big house of her dreams, Eason Chan did not hesitate to bear a mortgage of 300 million, but only Xu Haoying's name was written on the real estate certificate.
No matter how his wife spends money and what outsiders say, Eason Chan always stands behind his wife, and he generously said on the show that his wife doesn't spend much, and isn't making money for his wife to spend?
The reason why this is so is because Xu Haoying once accompanied Eason Chan to help him go through the most difficult days together.
The essence of marriage is like this, outsiders don't know what to do, it is always two people who understand each other, love, tolerate, and take each other's feelings as their own responsibility.
If you are dissatisfied with a certain point of the other party, or because you can't see your reality clearly, you have excessive selfish desires. If the other party can't satisfy himself, he keeps complaining about the other party, complaining about the other party's incompetence, and even thinking that he can get a better life without the other party, which is a fool's dream.
The life you are currently living and the circle you already have must match your current abilities, and if you want to be better, you must strive for it. What you earn by forcing others to work hard may not be yours.
It is not necessarily bad to be content with the situation of her life as the woman above, at least her marriage is happy and happy.
Cherish your other half, and those who are content are always happy. The heart is together, and the love between the two people who are working hard to make it in one place will definitely have bread!
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